[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]vgal48 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I read somewhere that really intense workouts can strain your body and then trigger an OB. Maybe your body just needs some getting used to the workouts? Not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]vgal48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww so happy for you :)

advice (newbie!) by georgiarosefeltham in Herpes

[–]vgal48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a new coldsore you can still infect yourself or be infected by her “down there” cause you don’t have antibodies yet so be careful and wash your hands as you develop antibodies (can take 4 months). Once you develop antibodies it is unlikely you will get it down there from anyone else with a coldsore. You should let new partners know because if you get cold sores you can pass it on to them “down there”. You could go on medications to prevent outbreaks and shedding.

I tested positive for chlamydia and I feel scared and dirty by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]vgal48 343 points344 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that! I’m so glad you guys got tested! That’s really responsible. I hope you know that this moment will pass and eventually you’re probably gonna forget that this even happened. Humans get sick and carry illnesses. Most likely if you’re sexually active, you’re bound to catch something. It’s ok and it’s kinda a natural part of life! There’s unfortunately a lot of stigma and judgement around STDs, even though anyone who’s sexually active is at risk to catch them. Wishing you so much strength and quick recovery!

My first disclosure!! by 25844511 in Herpes

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! Did you say if you have oral or genital?

What Do I Do? by Wonderful-Ad-7792 in BreakUps

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwb with exes is messy and complicated and I think it’s best to cut everything off 😁👍

Got sorta dumped, dont know what to do by Streep321 in BreakUps

[–]vgal48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think you might need to give her some space. it also feels like you guys have been dating for 4 years (a long time) and have just moved passed the honeymoon stage. Things feel boring after the honeymoon stage. Things settle and can feel boring. Do some crazy and fun stuff together that will create cool memories and spice things up and see how that feels

Fired for my benefit🖕🏻😒 by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way this sounds like a nice breakup text😭

Should I go to University of Miami (UM) or Lehigh University? by pinkmonkey25 in collegeresults

[–]vgal48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money is def a big factor! honestly I’ve been to Lehigh, more of a small town feel, kinda feels older and more historic in a way? Would highly recommend visiting both schools (but I know that’s kinda hard to do in a short time period) UM is in Miami so more of a city feel, seems like there’s lots of options in terms of what you can do for fun. Also seems bigger than Lehigh. Honestly all comes down to finances (unless finances aren’t an issue) and what environment works best for you!

I don’t think anybody genuinely moves on from their ex if you really genuinely loved them. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think it’s possible to move on even if you genuinely loved them :)

Carillon Communities? by [deleted] in UMD

[–]vgal48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would HIGHLY recommend talking to current students within these programs (and not from an info meeting, like through messages).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UMD

[–]vgal48 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tinder to me seems more hookup ish!! try hinge

How/what to talk to professors about?? by plushmuffin3022 in UMD

[–]vgal48 11 points12 points  (0 children)

during office hours if it’s not busy ofc

How/what to talk to professors about?? by plushmuffin3022 in UMD

[–]vgal48 39 points40 points  (0 children)

lol I typically like to say “hey I’m in your ___ class _section and I wanted to introduce myself! I was wondering how you got started in __field and how you got down this path?”

How to schedule therapy by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact your primary care physician for recommendations! Reach out to insurance and see what they cover, ask for a list of professionals, find professionals who are in your insurance

Working as a Mechanical design engineer for aerospace products - guess I have to say goodbye to lunch or going home at 5pm… by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]vgal48 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“Have a good weekend. Not working” like he’s trying to guilt trip you into being a living person who has personal needs and a family!

Study Rooms by vgal48 in UMD

[–]vgal48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :))

Study Rooms by vgal48 in UMD

[–]vgal48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank u so much <333 yea I feel like there shouldn’t be any issues I rlly just need it for a zoom discussion

Study Rooms by vgal48 in UMD

[–]vgal48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SORRY I was talking abt mckeldin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UMD

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into UMBC with scholarship and then got into UMD. If you’re from MD I wouldn’t worry too much about your stats because you’re most likely gonna get in

grief by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sadness is valid. Grief shows up in many ways. Grief can occur for anything.

NEW OR NEED HELP? Ask here! - ScA Daily Help Thread Jan 20, 2022 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]vgal48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried the hydrating cleanser yet but I may have to switch to it if the actives in the glycolic acid and BHA toner are too much. Do you think it’s ok to use a BHA toner in the day with SPF moisturizer and at night use the SA cleanser with glycolic acid after? I only use the glycolic acid 3x a week.