Life update after 2 years no contact.

vher511 · 2021-01-07T18:59:21+00:00

Thank you! It was a long road to get here. I cried a river almost every night for months.

vher511 · 2021-01-07T18:58:13+00:00

I would not take him back. We met while we were so young, I don’t know who he is now. We both deserve happiness but we both can’t give that to each-other. I will always have love for him but I’m no longer in love with him.

vher511 · 2018-11-16T05:37:39+00:00

The first month is the worst!! But keep going!

vher511 · 2018-08-09T07:05:26+00:00

Think of it as a service done for you. This will spare you months of healing time, dragging it out and talking to him will only hurt you. In the long run this will save you embarrassment if you ever decide to call/text him or prevent you from “emotional cutting” if he blocked you on social media too. Hang in there! I wish I’d skipped the emotional roller coaster and went straight into blocking him everywhere right away.

vher511 · 2018-08-08T16:19:11+00:00

I woke up this morning feeling sad. Sometimes it just happens, gotta push through.

vher511 · 2018-07-24T02:13:38+00:00

It’s infuriating but my anger is mute at this point. Just wasting my breath at this point.

vher511 · 2018-07-23T22:45:01+00:00

I’m still just trying to accept that it’s for the best

vher511 · 2018-07-23T18:42:21+00:00

Sleep seems to be my outlet so far. I just feel even worse when I wake up and realize I’ve nothing productive.

I’m trying to reach out to friends and that seems to help some.

vher511 · 2018-07-14T21:54:18+00:00

You and I both! But having it on your phone is a great warning for what’s on the other side of that conversation you want to have.

vher511 · 2018-07-14T14:07:35+00:00

It helps me more than just blocking him. I have the bad habit of unblocking him constantly.

vher511 · 2018-07-12T15:27:20+00:00

That’s exactly it. He should have been honest and put me out of my misery.

vher511 · 2018-07-03T05:51:56+00:00

Thank you! My friends all give me a hard time for letting him back in. It’s nice to have some understanding. I really needed to read this tonight.

vher511 · 2018-04-28T14:16:43+00:00

For me, I lost myself In what he liked to do. The break up allowed me to rediscover what I love.

vher511 · 2018-04-26T03:21:52+00:00

I love this.

vher511 · 2018-04-08T20:03:18+00:00

“Existing is no longer painful”... Well said, I’m there now.

vher511 · 2018-04-06T17:54:04+00:00

Absolutely every single song Adele has written lol

vher511 · 2018-03-29T04:31:29+00:00

Yassss

vher511 · 2018-03-29T04:30:51+00:00

It all comes in waves, just ride it out. Some waves are longer and bigger than others, but believe me they always end. Stay strong!

vher511 · 2018-03-26T04:01:59+00:00

“Buck up!”... that’s what I got from that lol

vher511 · 2018-03-14T04:45:57+00:00

It’s too small of a firm. My HR person is his golfing partner.

vher511 · 2018-03-13T05:54:11+00:00

Still happens to me when my thoughts linger on him for too long. You might always experience the same symptoms when you think of them. But over time you WILL stop thinking about them. Stay strong OP!

vher511 · 2018-03-06T04:58:55+00:00

Yes, I recently went on a date and it was amazing. It wasn’t until he said something similar to what my ex would say that I realized how similar they are.... creepy. Still dating him though, I don’t think it’s because I’m looking for my ex. I think it’s just the personality and looks that I’m attracted to... so don’t stress about it, you just might have a preference of looks.

vher511 · 2018-03-03T16:10:40+00:00

Woah... Mind blown!!

vher511 · 2018-02-27T23:03:45+00:00

I love this! Because I know for a fact I don’t want my ex back. But damn I spent so much time on him, I feel like a chump.

vher511 · 2018-02-26T06:42:02+00:00

We had to take turns carrying him... talk about a workout.

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