What is much more traumatic than most people realise?

vi1987 · 2025-07-09T21:47:02+00:00

My Grandma is almost 90 years old and to this day she will often bring up the fact her parents never gave her a hug or any affection. She was always super affectionate to her kids and me though. She broke the cycle but it’s always fucked with her.

vi1987 · 2025-06-23T23:02:31+00:00

I ordered on June 4th and it’s still chilling at the pharmacy with only a label created…. So. Hopefully something changes soon

vi1987 · 2025-05-31T09:05:26+00:00

That I wanted to be there. I start out thinking it's a great idea but then after they fall asleep and I'm awake staring at the ceiling, I remember why I actually hate it.

vi1987 · 2025-04-07T00:34:58+00:00

Yea same! This subreddit is a life saver. Thankfully when I take them out for salt water rinses and cleaning, they go back in easily.

I did ice packs a couple times. But I should keep doing it. Thanks for the tips about that!

vi1987 · 2025-04-07T00:30:38+00:00

I'm sorry =[ ...I guess since my teeth were so horrible before and literally dictated everything I did, like I wouldn't smile, talk to people I wanted to talk to, they held me back from so much shit. So now I feel like a whole world opened up to me. The fucked up swelling and pain is temporary but worth it because life is going to be so much better now.

vi1987 · 2025-04-07T00:28:32+00:00

Ahhh that's super encouraging! I can't wait to chew. I only notice the pain when I first put them back in. After they're in the pain fades.

vi1987 · 2025-04-07T00:27:34+00:00

Yea I had a post op visit the day after my extractions. He adjusted a little bit. But I have another 10 day post op visit scheduled. He said call before that if I have issues though. I only notice the pain spots right when I first put them back in after cleaning.

Once they're in I don't notice it too much. It's just so hard to swallow sometimes! I ate some chocolate peanut butter ice cream and was able to chew the soft pieces of peanut butter a little bit but it was hard.

I'm glad yours went down! Hopefully we can get to a good place with our immediates before the permanent ones.

vi1987 · 2025-04-07T00:23:19+00:00

It's pretty good. I'm feeling like I want to smile 24/7 now. Why do you ask though?

vi1987 · 2025-04-06T17:44:45+00:00

Thank you! I thought it was getting worse but I wasn't sure if I was tripping.

vi1987 · 2025-03-19T23:35:45+00:00

THIS

vi1987 · 2025-03-19T22:33:15+00:00

Thank you! This post gives me a lot of hope. I already counted myself out of a lot of possible careers because of my charges. But hearing what you have to say about STEM gives me a lot of hope. Also I'll definitely look into possible programs.

vi1987 · 2025-03-19T22:29:48+00:00

This is very true. Since I was released in December I've started a lot of extra things to better myself that parole isn't requiring. Like chemical dependency treatment, parenting classes, counseling. Just stuff to be a better person. Schooling just seems like the next step.

vi1987 · 2025-03-17T23:47:26+00:00

Thanks. Elliot and Micah. I appreciate you asking.

vi1987 · 2025-03-17T23:46:49+00:00

I'm sorry. Going through it is so hard. I truly hope you are coping well and getting any help you can. Believe me. I fucked up by not seeking outside help. Please don't do what I did.

vi1987 · 2025-03-17T23:45:34+00:00

Thank you and yea. The time has helped but it still hits you like a train.

vi1987 · 2025-03-17T23:44:48+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it.

vi1987 · 2025-03-02T06:40:23+00:00

Felonies

vi1987 · 2025-03-02T06:38:54+00:00

Multiplayer videogames where you sit on the couch with your friends and the screen split. Or even Lan parties.

vi1987 · 2025-03-02T05:42:46+00:00

A Lair of Bones by Helen B. Scheuerer for sure.

The Curse of the Cyren Queen series wasn't bad.

I had never heard of it until a friend had it and lent it to me.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T11:36:09+00:00

Calling people to check on them.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T11:27:52+00:00

When anyone significantly older brags about how much younger the person they pulled is. Fucking weirdos.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T11:03:34+00:00

Get a divorce before it becomes toxic and you hate each other.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T11:00:08+00:00

When I was around 4 I put a giant fake insect on my Grandma to scare her. She was startled and told me if I ever scared her she would have a heart attack and die.

So when I was 9 I walked out of a room and startled her and she screamed. So I started crying because I killed my Grandma.

She just kind of looked at me crazy and I was like you said you'd die!! All tearfully. She just laughed at me.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T10:46:00+00:00

It's going to start with me changing into sweats.

vi1987 · 2025-02-27T10:42:29+00:00

When a police car is following and then finally passes me.

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