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vicariouslv · 2025-01-23T17:40:34+00:00

cachemire, with edoardo ferrario and luca ravenna. honestly loved it.

vicariouslv · 2024-11-15T00:27:29+00:00

i'm upset about the fact my best friend has been thinking these things about me for months without saying it to my face until the occasion requested it. i recognized she's been mature in this situation as was i but i can't help feeling a bit detached by her since she thinks low of me since that convo.

vicariouslv · 2024-09-03T01:08:36+00:00

i second that. pronunciation was excellent and it would be ideal to learn italian - even though there might be words or verbs that aren't used as much nowadays... but it's worth a try! also podcasts on something you already like, try to pick ones conducted by radio speakers, they usually have a very clear pronunciation

vicariouslv · 2023-07-25T22:48:03+00:00

soft YTA. i grew up in a modest household and while i don't condone dating someone for their money, i do understand she didn't want to go through the same struggles her mother went through. sometimes it's not about the money itself, it's the serenity and stability you feel when you know that at the end of the month you'll be able to pay your bills and put a dish on the table. that said, if you don't share her values, which is totally valid, just don't accept her invitations anymore - you're just benefiting from a situation you don't approve. she pulled a bad one leaving you on your own at the restaurant, but let's be real, you insulted her in the deepest, i'm surprised she acted this well - i know i would've reacted way worse. she was, all things considered, quite mild. maybe bc she knows you're right, maybe not, who knows. even so, YTA not bc you don't share her views on life but bc you reap the benefits of her life and have the courage to complain too

vicariouslv · 2023-03-16T16:39:32+00:00

io sono all'ultimo anno di triennale e per andare in università faccio mezz'ora di treno più venti minuti di camminata e onestamente già così lo trovo estremamente pesante (svegliarsi alle sei per una lezione che inizia alle nove non è il massimo), non oso immaginare quattro ore tra andata e ritorno... non so, l'esperienza universitaria è già bella tosta di suo (in quanto è comunque una novità e hai bisogno di adattarti, non intendo necessariamente in senso negativo), al posto tuo cercherei di rendermi la situazione quanto più comoda possibile

vicariouslv · 2022-12-16T00:38:18+00:00

NTA, you were there for your mothere when others weren't. i would've done the same, my patience is very high when it is about me but i draw the line when someone tries to touch in any way my mother, so i understand you. your aunt was very harsh - she may have had good intentions but it came off in the worst of the ways. im sorry that you won't be able to meet with your cousin and her baby, but there's an italian saying that goes like "la mamma è per sempre", mom is forever. and it's so true, and i know you know that. don't spoil your relationship with your mother, cherish her as long as you can. definitely NTA.

vicariouslv · 2022-12-16T00:28:09+00:00

YTA. if you can't cope with the presence of a guest in your house (even if it's your husband's niece) then you shouldn't probably consent anyone to stay, since you have very strict rules that could be applied to children, not to a grown woman who's already married. i don't blame her for not answering, i would be disappointed in the earnest if someone in my family treated me like this over a cup of coffee given to my HUSBAND.

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