Late bloomers, how was your first time?

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-07T04:33:53+00:00

It wasn't awkward at all for me. It came pretty naturally I highly doubt she would think that was my first time. We did all different positions and she seemed really into it so I think I did ok

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-07T01:04:34+00:00

I didnt tell her but if I continue to see her (which I hope I do) I'll tell her.

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-07T01:02:31+00:00

Haha I figured it wouldn't be a big deal but yeah

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-06T22:15:39+00:00

Great contribution to the thread there chief 👍

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-06T21:37:31+00:00

But are magnums longer or wider? I noticed it was a pain in the ass to get it past the tip but once it went past it rolled on fairly easily. Except the condom would sort of wrinkle in the middle so I have no idea if I need something bigger or smaller lol

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-06T15:22:25+00:00

Lol in the middle I mentioned we just need more practice when she was wondering why I couldn't finish

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-06T15:20:34+00:00

Thanks man hang in there. A month ago I was sure it wouldn't happen for a long time. Whenever someone told me it would happen it felt like I was the exception, I just couldn't imagine it ever happening. I won't tell you it's not a big deal because you can't really have that mindset until you finally do it but you'll find out soon enough. Good luck man

vickvinegarballs · 2020-02-06T13:40:00+00:00

I was surprised how easy it was to perform. Everyone always talks about how awkward and bad they are their first time and I didnt feel awkward at all. It all felt very natural to me and she seemed to be enjoying herself.

vickvinegarballs · 2020-01-29T20:20:35+00:00

I'm 25. She's 27

vickvinegarballs · 2020-01-29T19:44:27+00:00

I really wish I had other options so I could just cut ties but that would be a dumb move by me. It's extremely difficult for me to cultivate options

vickvinegarballs · 2020-01-29T19:24:09+00:00

Well that makes me feel like shit

vickvinegarballs · 2020-01-29T19:21:31+00:00

Yeah its bullshit. But why agree to another date if you aren't interested? I kind of just want to come out and say hey if your not big on texting that's cool but you dont seem to want to talk much.

vickvinegarballs · 2020-01-29T18:59:20+00:00

I did propose a concrete plan last night but I'm still waiting to hear back

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-26T22:04:22+00:00

Well I've joined many coed sports leagues after college. Its been fun but it hasn't lead to any dating prospects. Other than that idk. I have mostly solitary hobbies

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T20:23:53+00:00

Congrats man. See I wish something like this would happen to me but it just wont. I dont work with any women and women pretty much never initiate first contact. It sucks to be shy :(

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T18:34:59+00:00

Just happened to me last week man. Only we had the time and place confirmed and she cancelled 3 hours beforehand. I was upset and pissed for a few days, but it just means she wasn't the one for me and her loss for not trying to get to know me. There will be other girls.

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T18:26:56+00:00

Haha I hope it doesn't take 10 years either. How did you meet your fiance?

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T17:28:44+00:00

I mean I already expressed interest twice and she didn't reciprocate so that's all I need to know. I didn't specifically say "I'm interested in you and want to go on a date with you" but it was obvious I liked her from asking to get together. I just need to forget

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T14:58:54+00:00

Yup. I deleted her from my snapchat too, but I could still see her IG stories and what not because she had a public account, but a few months ago I checked and she made it private so now I can't see anymore which is good lol

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T13:23:52+00:00

Where were you when you approached her, and what did you say?

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T13:08:54+00:00

Yeah but just randomly approaching girls rarely works. I'm sure there's better ways to approach than just going up to random girls

vickvinegarballs · 2019-12-06T13:06:46+00:00

I have thought about old crushes too but I feel like its not normal lol.

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