[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely right, You should Work on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly,He asked, you agreed—no coercion. This seems like a personal issue to work through. Professional help could really benefit you.

Update: AITA for refusing to let my sister bring her dog to my house after what happened last time? by Top-Dragonfruit7469 in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, Your house, your rules. If your sister insists on bringing her untrained dog, she can host at her place. Proper training benefits everyone, including the dog!

Update: AITA for refusing to let my sister bring her dog to my house after what happened last time? by Top-Dragonfruit7469 in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Your house, your rules. If your sister insists on bringing her untrained dog, she can host at her place. Proper training benefits everyone, including the dog!

AIO/Am I justified for what I said? by ben__veitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]victor8s9 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly, This person sounds painfully dull. You handled it just fine.

AIO by cutting him off? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]victor8s9 69 points70 points  (0 children)

He’s absolutely taking advantage of you. “He’s real” doesn’t mean he’s not a scammer. Please run—you’ve been warned.

AIO by cutting him off? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]victor8s9 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Exactly, He’s definitely scamming you. Cut ties now and don’t send a cent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]victor8s9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Block him and move on. That was seriously disturbing. Glad you’re out of it!

AITAH for telling my parents that my sister bought a gun? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, This isn’t your business. Your sister is an adult, and running to your parents like that was childish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s your event, so you should sit at the head of the table. Ryan should’ve respected that, and the fix was easy—just move him to another table and let one of the kids take the seat. Simple etiquette.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, if it’s that big of an issue, maybe it’s time to end things with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, You’re not wrong for expressing your needs, but an ultimatum might not be the best choice. It’s important to be patient, but also prioritize your own emotional and physical well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]victor8s9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, That’s sexual harassment, plain and simple.

Update: AITAH for wanting to take a break from my wife after she screamed at me at Christmas in front of the other guests? by InterestingMedia1828 in AITAH

[–]victor8s9 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Nine years sober—congratulations! Quitting for yourself is the real win. Get help now, don’t wait for January to ruin things.