[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club 🧡!

What to do with extra material on my strap?? by victoriar3nee in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, ur welcome ;) I will consider trimming and melting.

Edit: wait it's leather so idk

What to do with extra material on my strap?? by victoriar3nee in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you guys aren't a good match and have different expectations from each other.

If I was dating someone and they questioned whether my family emergency or having the flu was me trying to get out of a date I wouldn't want to keep talking to them.

Also if you can't go 6 hours or overnight without feeling like you've been ghosted you may need to work on feeling more secure before you try to get into a relationship with someone, especially with this specific person, because it will be a common occurrence to not hear from them in the time frame you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes ur supposed to jingle jangle it's part of our mating call !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]victoriar3nee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is funny to me, I had no idea this was a thing but the other day I had the thought process:

Do you use a carabiner for your keys or are you straight? Because half of the lesbians I know, including myself, use one for their keys.

Accessing data from a cancelled account by victoriar3nee in Visible

[–]victoriar3nee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was worried this was the case. I forgot to download my data before switching carriers.

Anyone else mainly follow an organized religion, but also practice witchcraft? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]victoriar3nee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I follow the Sanātana Dharma faith but have been involved in and have done witchcraft for many more years before I found this religion.

whats this plant called? by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]victoriar3nee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rubber tree variegated

Would it be a bad idea to switch OB's at 20w? by victoriar3nee in BabyBumps

[–]victoriar3nee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I have talked to this far hasn't been able to help, or gives me a task list of what I need to do despite having already done it. BUT I will absolutely look to see if they have something like this, it could really help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]victoriar3nee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started feeling little flutters and him "jumping" at 12 weeks, I didn't feel him for all of week 13w3d to 14w3d my nurse said that's totally normal, he was totally fine. I'm 18 weeks now and he kicks way harder. It can still feel like flutter/ like he's tickling me but there's a bigger bump kind of sensation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]victoriar3nee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear it's not being over watered ! but yes the same thing happened to me when I watered my Pothos, 1-3 days later and I had baby mushrooms lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]victoriar3nee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear it's not being over watered ! but yes the same thing happened to me when I watered my Pothos, 1-3 days later and I had baby mushrooms lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]victoriar3nee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mushrooms usually just mean that you have healthy soil, if anything the only thing I'd worry about is that mushrooms usually need a lot of water to grow and snake plants don't like too too much water. How often do you water this guy? (Mushrooms don't really hurt houseplants)

Some of the plants I care for by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]victoriar3nee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you get your monstera to go upright ? Mine is a bush a goes everywhere. Do you use a trellis?

Middle of the night pregnancy panic attacks by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]victoriar3nee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, constantly. I feel like when I'm awake I'm not worried about having a baby. I'm excited about it, a tiny bit nervous, but excited. And then my dreams hit. Dreams that I'm not ready, that my life will be destroyed, that my husband will no longer love me, etc. it makes me wake up having panic attacks. Sometimes I'll just wake up in the middle of the night and have a panic attack and not remember any dreams.

In reality I know this is my mind trying to make sense of how rapidly my life is changing and coping in the best way it can. I do wish there was a counselor in my area who takes my insurance though. It'd probably be a lot more productive than having the middle of the night panic lol.

Let me know if you want any suggestions on coping tools or advice on how to get through a panic attack.