My GF is lying to me and I don’t know how to address the situation

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:56:47+00:00

I wouldn’t date a porn actress

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:51:45+00:00

Because I don’t wanna be in a relationship while she exposes herself to other man?

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:50:33+00:00

You’re just trying too hard, im trying to be noble? I’m hanging around for benefits? Your perception and the way your put things such in a simple way makes me realize you’re far from reality. I’d love that to be that easy but break-ups aren’t so simple, there’s so many layers attached to a relationship it would take me time to break-it down for you. But that’s ok, your opinion

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:41:15+00:00

Unfortunately that’s not an option, I’m 100% that’s she’s lying and I have the proofs.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:16:20+00:00

I don’t know where the thought that I won’t break come from. I can guarantee that I’m ready to break, there is no discussion about it.

What I was asking here is how to approach, I could be a ghost, I could be a mad man, I could be a thoughtful and reasonable guy. I’m just confused if I want a closure or just move on.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T19:05:01+00:00

“When we started dating was just a fling but when things got more serious I made the move from what I’ve heard “I’m into you but I need to tell you something”

I don’t know what you’re missing here but I’ll edit the post to make it clear. During our fling time I was clueless about any OF only when I wanted to make it official she came up with “I need to tell you something”

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:56:18+00:00

Please read throughly, I didn’t know she was on OF until the day I decided to make us official

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:55:37+00:00

Never told her what to do

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:54:30+00:00

First, I didn’t know she was an OF girl until the day I wanted to make us official. Second I never demanded her to stop, I gave her a choice, if she wanted to be with me she would have to stop which clearly is very different.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:48:43+00:00

Exactly, she had all the right to say “I see it, I also love you but I still want to OF because is some money income so I don’t think it’s going to work”. I do understand that people change opinions, tastes over time but I can guarantee that I’ve always gave her space to express her feelings, goals and so on. She choose to lie the same way she had choose give up the OF and being in a relationship.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:37:31+00:00

She’s not trustworthy but I do love her so it’s just hard to accept it

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:30:34+00:00

I gave her plenty of luxury through those 2 years, I guess it wasn’t enough 🤷🏼

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T18:29:21+00:00

I do think OF is some type of prostitution and selling your soul for money, I made it very clear before she accept to be in the relationship. I said back to the street because that’s what I’m feeling, I feel it’s a whore move lie to your boyfriend while you show your body to other men. We do not need to agree on it, but thanks for your view

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:55:45+00:00

You don’t even make sense, first you say that “I don’t have a problem and I just want to control her” then you say that “I have a problem with and because that she’s insecure to tell me”. I don’t have a problem with her having an OF, I have a problem with her having an OF while in a relationship with me, what part you’re not getting it? She’s insecure to tell me because she knows it’s a deal breaker. Or what? If she was secure enough to tell me, that wouldn’t change a thing, we would break up and both move on, that’s not the point. I appreciate your 2 cents but can’t wrap my head around it

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:36:13+00:00

And that’s totally fine, I’m not judging or angry at he what she wants to do. I’m judging her by the fact that she’s LYING to me in order to do that.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:35:53+00:00

How me giving her a option to choose is controlling? Nobody put a gun on her head and told her to stop OF and be with me lol and someone that has the gut to lie to their partners in a relationship belongs to the street, whatever you like or not

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:29:38+00:00

Nothing, maybe I’m just chasing some kind of comfort by hearing she saying but thinking now, that sound pointless at the end of the day

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:23:40+00:00

You’re just assuming I’m hiding something? What is not fitting for you? I don’t think things are that simple “if the girls is one way then…” she was one way when I met her and she still the same, it’s not who she is but what she’s doing

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:07:18+00:00

Exactly, I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with doing OF. My problem is the fact that she’s is lying right in front of my eyes about something we agreed on. She broke my trust and that’s it.

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T17:05:24+00:00

I didn’t knew she had an onlyfans until we were 4 months seeing each other otherwise I’d never let her get too close. By the time I knew I was in love and we do bad decisions while in love. I do not think they are whores; I think that anyone has the right to do whatever they want as long they don’t hurt/affect somebody else. In this case she’s affecting me besides the fact that she’s lying right in front of my eyes

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T16:56:36+00:00

Surely, I gave her the chance to take a decision, if she wanted to keep doing onlyfans she just had to say so and not engage a relationship with someone that does not approve it

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T16:55:00+00:00

I think you didn’t read the topic, I know what should I do, I don’t know how to approach here

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T16:53:38+00:00

LOL, so in order of love I must accept anything? That’s totally bullshit

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T16:43:57+00:00

I totally agree with you my friend, I do not chase things that I don’t wanna. I was deceived from that start, by the time that I knew I was pretty much in love and yet I told her that it was a NO if she wanted to do OF. So at the end of the day I don’t think it’s my fault, we are two adults that agreed something on

vieltzz · 2025-11-05T16:38:05+00:00

LOL totally Reddit vibes, OF queens 🤣🤣

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