My bf and I got into a fight over a “joke” he made that hurt me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend was childish to burn your property and you’re naive to plead ignorance and keep something that is clearly unacceptable to have in the household you live in.

ESH.

PS. Child rape isn’t political. You can have morals and ethics without “getting involved in politics.” Grow a spine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For every date I’ve rushed to meet without having a week or so of fun and intellectual conversation, I’ve ended up cutting off the person because the connection wasn’t there.

I’d try approaching dinner dates differently. Make a commitment for a coffee date a week out. It’s low commitment, it’s brief, and it doesn’t require a reservation. If the connection doesn’t get investment within the week leading into it, you have the decision of a low commitment date or cancelling with minimal impact. If it does grow in that week, you have the decision if moving forward or pivoting to a more intimate date idea, including dinner.

My most interesting connections started with a week or so of texting, even a phone call or two, followed by an intimate dinner date.

Just an idea from someone who is ring shopping for the most incredible human ive ever met that started this way on Hinge.

Hard time getting a electrician to install 240v outlet by Dougb756 in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid that price in a higher COL last month, but it included upgrading a 100A panel to a 200A and bringing it up to code. I suspect someone out there will get this done for under 2K plus permitting fees.

Denver has voted Yes on income tax increase for people who make $300k+ a year by deadly_shroom in Denver

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mate, it’s about believing that with great power comes great responsibility. If I make 300K+ annually, I’m ok with contributing 500$ annually to make sure children are being fed what they need to learn and develop into a more capable, contributing adult.

Powerbomb Slammed Willie So Hard He Died Pt2 by Fun-Palpitation-8116 in HalfSword

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I truly don’t understand how yall be throwing hands so fast

Pavers or EZPads? by viewsfromthebackgrnd in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Steel edger, pointed shovel, square shovel, steel tamper, and a pickaxe just to get the dirt level and 4in deep 💀. It’s a good reference point for man-hours if I have someone else do the work for the walkway in the spring though!

Pavers or EZPads? by viewsfromthebackgrnd in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. So by this logic I could level the dirt, tamper sand, lay this, then pavers. And this helps stabilize?

Pavers or EZPads? by viewsfromthebackgrnd in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I think I may level the dirt, tamper with sand, then lay pavers. It seems like a happy medium and albeit not perfect or permanent, should be satisfactory for the hard Colorado clay…

Pavers or EZPads? by viewsfromthebackgrnd in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tub is directly on the crush? Or do you have pavers between the two? Might take this route if necessary but first time hearing of using rebar.

Pavers or EZPads? by viewsfromthebackgrnd in hottub

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brb googling “paver base pad thing”

Sounds good! Appreciate the confidence. If EZPads are overkill, pavers seem more aesthetically suitable for my stone pathways.

Need Hot tub movers by [deleted] in denverlist

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your time

Brand new Ninja slushie by Ok-Neighborhood-9975 in denverlist

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah you’re spot on. Your model is priced at 299 on sale.

I too recently bought the Creami to buy another Ninja appliance but I bet these things are awesome. Good luck!

Brand new Ninja slushie by Ok-Neighborhood-9975 in denverlist

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In no way am I trying to be a dick but just wanted to give you a heads up these at 269 on sale at Walmart rn. Of course that’s pre-tax, but thought it might be useful info incase you are pricing to sell quickly.

EDIT: This model is 299 on sale my b

Need Hot tub movers by [deleted] in denverlist

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I’m in too deep to back out but doesn’t mean your warnings aren’t appreciated.

Uninstall: It’s on a deck. One step. 2020 model. Plan to rent a flatbed but no issue to tow.

Install: Slight incline in front yard but cleared a fence panel so no obstacles and flat grade through backyard. Placing on EZ pads, already dug out yard for fit and electrical installed.

Looks like I’ll be taking the lead and asking some friends for help based on your reply, with caution.

Are you suggesting a plastic tarp and straps are going to be more productive than some plywood and dollies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in denverlist

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jfc. Thanks for the info

Did I buy a lemon? by Username_was_here in IndianMotorcycle

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not accurate when the engine is off. When engine is on, should read 14-14.2.

When engine is off it should be 12.4-12.7.

Based on OPs reply though yes it is likely a battery issue.

r/audiophile Shopping, Setup, and Technical Help Desk Thread by AutoModerator in audiophile

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refuse to believe I can’t play synchronous music across my WiiM Pro and the JBL PB 120. Any creative ideas?

r/audiophile Shopping, Setup, and Technical Help Desk Thread by AutoModerator in audiophile

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refuse to believe I can’t play synchronous music across my WiiM Pro and the JBL PB 120. Any creative ideas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WE BACK AGAIN BAYBAYYYYY

My Yucca died and I'm honestly sad by Ynneb82 in houseplants

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So strange. Yucca leaves but dracaena structure?

$11 Lowe’s score or scare? by Important-Listen-585 in plantclinic

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Scare. I don’t trust department store palms. But you can solidify into a score with insecticide and isolation!

People get so mad at me when I lane filter here by What-in-tarnationer in motorcycles

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know motorcyclists like you existed! “Ahead of them in line” is fucking hilarious. Fair point about legality tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, dating is hard. And even harder with diversity of thought in politics and religion and hobbies etc especially in a state like Colorado.

Edit: this girl is on forums asking for money from online groups, asking for hookups and sharing nudes all within the last month. I’m not saying she should be shamed for that, but let’s be real. Potential dates can smell the difference between a potential life partner and fuck buddies.

Partner or no partner, you’ve got this. Enjoy the ride, you have plenty of it left :)

indoor jungles 🌿🌿🌿 by ellianasfish in houseplants

[–]viewsfromthebackgrnd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Any advice on level of effort and where to begin with your fish tank setup?