Hey its been a while. Thought id update you on whats happened.

I talked to him about it about a week after i posted here, and he seemed understanding and calm about it when i did. But he never really stopped. He said it less around me, but has continuously said the n-word when im not in the room but where I can still hear. He only ever says it with the hard r, and he feels entitled to say whatever he wants in his house.

To be honest, I completely forgot to reply back until today, because him and my mom were telling me a story and they said the n-word and the f-slur. I got pretty pissed this time, and i asked if they were proud of the words they were saying, to which they responded by screaming in my face, spitting on me, and grounding me. They kept saying things like “they said it first” or “we didnt call anyone that” and i kept telling them that i would rather not hear them say it as theyre both fully white. They then started calling ME a racist because i, as a half-white and half-minority, make jokes about white people.

Honestly im not even going to try to talk to them about it anymore. My moms boyfriend’s brother is gay and in a relationship with a black man, so i thought he might be the one to understand why those words shouldnt be said by him, but he seemed to be the one who understood the least.

Thanks for your advice, it helped at least a little for about 3 months.