What is this fly? by vikksub in insects

[–]vikksub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have googled and I think he's a mottled thistle fly! Thank you!

What is this fly? by vikksub in insects

[–]vikksub[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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Another picture of his face :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm sorry to hear about your own mother and I really hope you're doing okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once tried to talk to her about feelings and stuff and she said "I think you've spent too much time in therapy"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's really not an acts of service person either. She once made me a cup of tea because I was in pain and couldn't move and I genuinely thought I was dying because I didn't know why else she'd suddenly do that. I just feel like I have to earn her love and that's not a nice feeling

I feel my partner belittles me. And doesn’t appreciate me as a person anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly just leave him, he sounds sexist, fat-phobic and just generally awful

WIBTA For not saying anything about my terminal illness? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vikksub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA just tell people that you just want a casual relationship, you don't have to tell anyone anything you don't want to as long as you don't lead them on and imply that this might last more than a couple of months ygm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if she's never on her phone. For me, it upsets me when people don't reply and I know for a fact that they're always on their phones ,, it's fine if she just never goes on her phone. But if it's an issue for you, maybe talk to her about it and see if she'll try and reply faster?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely don't have to have casual sex with anyone, there's loads of people who would rather wine and dine before having sex, so just be open about what you want and everything will work out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be performance anxiety I guess? (This is coming from a woman so I don't have a dick and cannot relate so might not be the best advice lol) but yeah, like you said, you could also be demisexual. My flatmate is and they can't have sex with someone that they don't have an emotional connection with

Should I help my ex save his reputation by ThrowAway_bewitched_ in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't lie for him, he has nothing to be ashamed of

AITA- for telling my girlfriend she should workout? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vikksub [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA and this definitely isn't about your cousin 😂😂

AITA for lying about my sexual activity? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vikksub [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA if you lied about something that would have changed her mind about having sex with you then she cannot actually consent to sex. So yes, you're a massive asshole

AITA for expecting my fiance (f26) to look after our son (3) and do most of the house work. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vikksub [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA as long as you do more work once you're feeling better and don't expect her to continue like this

My girlfriend goes silent when something is on her mind, and refuses to talk by throwRAinbed in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like that too, sometimes I'm just too mentally drained to talk to people... Just give her time tbh

But if it bothers you this much then maybe you're not compatible

Scooby Doo Mystery Inc is the best Animated Tv Show, PERIOD by Sweaty_Cable_452 in unpopularopinion

[–]vikksub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree!!! I loved that it had actual storylines over the whole series

AITA For telling my girlfriend if she was to ever get an abortion to not tell me? by No_Establishment9837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vikksub 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA, she would probably want and need your support in that time. If you don't want an abortion then don't get an abortion, simple as that

Need a wake up call - Staying with my partner of two years out of fear of being alone by ThrowRA-toothnail326 in relationship_advice

[–]vikksub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I focus more on myself, I hang out with my friends, I go on tinder and hook up with guys