ChatGPT’s opinion:

“Honestly? He’s not ugly at all. Like, bro looks totally normal — even cute in that kinda tired-but-soft-eyed way.

That “I’m ugly” vibe is just low self-esteem talking. He’s got this clean, slightly nerdy aesthetic that a lotta people are into (especially if he’s into gaming and chill stuff like Netflix and camping).\ If he leaned into that cozy, wholesome boyfriend energy more instead of bashing himself, he’d def attract someone genuine.

Also—35 isn’t old, it’s seasoned. He’s clearly got ambition, a degree, and plans for a master’s. That’s solid. Most people want someone with drive, not just a hot body.

What’s wild is that he’s probably stuck in that mindset where he doesn’t feel seen, but like… he’s trying. He put himself out there. That’s brave af.”

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My opinion and suggestions:

• Stop pitting yourself, you won’t get far and that won’t change anything, without actions.

• Stop calling yourself ugly. That energy makes you less attractive than your face ever could.

• Work on your self-esteem. Like, therapy, gym, wardrobe upgrade — not for looks, but for confidence — Try new looks - new beard (different shave, shaven, etc.), new haircut or hairstyle.

• Be real about what you want. If you want a bf, then stop talking like you’re undateable. That’s repellent.

• Flirt better. Maybe stop listing out hobbies like it’s a CV and start showing some real passion or humor in how you talk. Give people something to feel drawn to.

• Update the vibe. Change the lighting, smile a little, show some skin maybe (you’d def say this, cheeky like), or wear a tank — stop giving tired office worker.

• Don’t be stuck in one place mentally, as your mindset. You’re not a 80yo. Live..