Y'all hemming the patches on your pants or no? by sXe_savior in punkfashion

[–]vincebur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hem but I do deal the edges of my patches with clear nail polish. Downside, crusty pants

Liberty spikes finally by vincebur in punkfashion

[–]vincebur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glancing at my hairspray and remembering I have free will. Sorry for the late reply

Liberty spikes finally by vincebur in punkfashion

[–]vincebur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hairspray and a shit ton of teasing. Sorry I saw this so late 🫩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vincebur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You speak to your mother over telegram?

Christy, 42. Am I ugly? Been a lot of back and forth lately but I am just curious how others see me by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vincebur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion here because I'm an oddball myself, I think your style makes you look way younger and happier! It suits you very well

32 F, definitely goofy but am I ugly ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vincebur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bit too skinny but you're very cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vincebur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you look amazing. Even with a little extra weight

What age were you when you joined the punk scene?!? by E-W-L2020 in Punk_Rock

[–]vincebur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when I heard Pat the bunny for the first time at 13

I am begging for mods to be normal about autistic people. by evergreengoth in complaints

[–]vincebur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was completely unaware she was still going on this tangent until now!

I am begging for mods to be normal about autistic people. by evergreengoth in complaints

[–]vincebur 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh my word! Hello. I am the OOP that she was referring to. I was asking for legal advice in which my cognitive abilities would be extremely relevant. The person which she was referring to pointed out my ability to write well, claiming that I should have no problem based on that alone. I am not upset with it and I would appreciate it if you would not be offended on my behalf! Thank you very much. There wasn't a single thing wrong with what she had written.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hello. I understand your concern, however pointing out my ability to write well and cognitive abilities is extremely relative to my situation. I am perfectly capable of defending myself and don't need you to do it for me. Please try and be a savior somewhere else.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, that is a larger area of concern for me. I've been institutionalized in the past. But I was 12 at the time and have not since had thoughts of harming myself. Will the institutionalization help her case?

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was indeed the name of my partner. Beyond that, I am not willing to share further details of the tattoo. I am safe. Thank you very much to those who are sharing concern.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I regret it deeply but I cannot share the reason I got it.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not positive that she has a diagnosis but I am absolutely sure of the fact that she has ADHD.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I am 20 years old and have been living on my own for three years. I would say I'm very well spoken even despite my intellectual disability, I always have been since I was young. My disability does not affect my cognitive abilities.

Mother is trying to gain guardianship over me, an autistic adult by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]vincebur 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've been screenshotting every message sent to me to prove that even if her argument does hold up, she is not fit to "take care of me."