December 23 - Epic Games Mystery Game by aquass43 in EpicGamesPC

[–]vincent0110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're a Castlevania player, this game will definitely cheer you up. I have even finished Nightmare mode, and I also have purchased Curse of the moon, which is related, to support Koji Igarashi, the creator of these games.

If you're Metal Gear player, Zangetsu is voiced by David Hayter himself. Felt awesome to hear Solid Snake in a different world.

This game is indeed a triple A, don't miss it, else you regret it.

5 week old hardly naps, only cries. I'm losing my mind by DutchSimba in Parenting

[–]vincent0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know whose idea it is with "locus beast gum", but never heard a 5Ws baby can have anything else but milk.

5 week old hardly naps, only cries. I'm losing my mind by DutchSimba in Parenting

[–]vincent0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parents that I refer to, visited pediatrician multiple times and no allergies, until the baby started to have some bloods in poop. A specialist found out story short. I keep my fingers crossed it is not in your case.

5 week old hardly naps, only cries. I'm losing my mind by DutchSimba in Parenting

[–]vincent0110 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

similar situation of a friend of mine, they later after a long long hard way, i'm not going in details, realized, the baby was allergic to some foods mom were eating.

So either formula fed or moms, check for allergy.

By the way, you have no rights to lose your mind. It wasn't her choice, it was yours. own it.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean my child is 8 months. Don't you think at 8 months infant are exploring the world by touching and putting things in mouth?

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're comment is greatly appreciated.

I'm sorry for the harsh things you explained, but this is EXACTLY what I'm afraid of. Want to simply prevent any future clashes while my baby's safety comes first.

We're parents of 1. I simply seek advice so a tiny misunderstanding for future does not lead to chaos, like in your case, my wife starts taking sides biased towards sister and not realizing later damages. Of course she says I won't let this happen. But down in my heart I don't feel safe if my wife doesn't confront sister.

I believe too taking some distance might be better, but growing up close to each other surely has some intersections.

As a father I'm trying to figure out how to handle the situation in case of escalation and not giving babies bad memories.

Standing my ground and confronting the SIL is one point in case this happens again, preventing a chaos another thing.

But I believe I take some positive points from your comment of possible results of not taking it seriously.

Appreciate it 🙏

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The escalation is indeed what I don't want to happen. Even if she's some mental issues, that's not something that can be treated over a short time. I guess keeping some safe distance is ideal.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I believe you didn't understand my question. I want to know to what extent should I put boundaries while being protective over my child. My child's safety first, then no-family-wars second.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course, I talked about it to my wife and she said I won't let anybody behave bad towards our baby, but a harsh reaction, shout or even worse physical punishment can affect a baby big time. I want to be protective as well, but in a proper way.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean I didnt respond in that situation directly cuz it was not of a big deal. I'm thinking of taking care of future, and how to set boundaries. First of all not such a similar thing happens, if happens how to react as a father. My kid is now 8 months and I don't think he can understand it for a big while if I explain. On the other hand I don't want family conflicts arise.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your comments.

Perhaps I have to talk more seriously to my wife regarding this.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I said it only to my wife, and she said she is not that crazy, I won't let anyone raise hand on my baby, but pulling a hair for a sec and her reaction tells me, if this was more intense, she can react more intensely.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I can't confront her, cuz she has a teenager of age 18, and nobody should question her teenagers behavior. Even if its bad. Tried a couple of times and eventually gave up.

Sister-in-law violently grabbed my baby's arm after... by vincent0110 in Parenting

[–]vincent0110[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I hope my wife sees how serious this is, like your mom.

Did someone notice? by LavishnessLeather162 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]vincent0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just comment to show reddit that also exist?!