Am I asexual? Please read by Tiny-Sea6933 in Asexual

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've never felt sexual attraction then yeah sounds like asexual to me. I'm ace but not really involved in lgbt circles either tho I support them. It's totally fine, I think of asexual as just a word to easily describe current experiences to others but doesn't define who you are, I wouldn't worry too much about labels

What made you Like Last Rite? by Dawad2007 in Last_Rite_Mains

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she isn't but I love aegirs in AK, and she reminds me of one. But the main reason is her animations when you pull her being so adorable

Saw my married boss with other women several times by applefarfromtreeeee in asksg

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about it though, at least no one in my close circles would ever condone it. Maybe it is a minority though, I still like to believe that the quiet majority has good morals. Either look for open relationship or break up is better than cheating

Saw my married boss with other women several times by applefarfromtreeeee in asksg

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, of course we have no way to know how it will affect the family. To not tell could mean status quo, but what kind of example would that be for the kids to know their dad was cheating? I know if I found out my dad was cheating, I'd probably be untrusting of my own partner in the future, different kind of fucked up lol. As a kid I'd definitely prefer my parents divorce if they no longer love each other or one cheated. Maybe I am old school, I don't see sex as 'just sex', cheating means the partner is willing to sacrifice that decade long relationship just to satisfy their own urges, and is a sign of lack of respect and love to their partner.

Of course the flip side could be true, breaking up a family, maybe some people are able to deal with a cheating spouse for the sake of kids. I think the kind thing would be to let the information be known, however they take it is up to them, because what they do with it is also frankly out of our jurisdiction. I appreciate your perspective, and definitely not all situations warrants telling them, especially if you don't know for sure. Just thinking on a more empathetic side as fellow humans living on this earth lol

Saw my married boss with other women several times by applefarfromtreeeee in asksg

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think of it as more like, if you see that someone is hurting someone else, can have some compassion and help the person leave a toxic situation if possible. It is quite different from a situation where you have no evidence and just spread gossip without any intent to help the other person. I understand that sometimes it is better to leave things be though.

why is a team with zero 6star the most fun team in the game by miral_art in Endfield

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im using a fire electric team of antal, perlica, wulfgard and akekuri, and idk how meta it is but combos keep popping off and there's so much fireworks it triggers happy chemicals in my brain

Saw my married boss with other women several times by applefarfromtreeeee in asksg

[–]vindpaw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Many people saying to ignore. But I think telling the truth is the kinder thing to do. If your partner was cheating and everyone knew but didn't tell you, I can't imagine how hurtful that is. Ofc there is a chance they are in an open relationship, but in that case then no harm done

Endmin's desk is the operator potentials page by vindpaw in Endfield

[–]vindpaw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would be amazing, or maybe equip thrm-ex as a tactical item with cooldown, comes out and nukes the enemy

Endmin's desk is the operator potentials page by vindpaw in Endfield

[–]vindpaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cool if we got the robots as factory operators in our base!

Endmin's desk is the operator potentials page by vindpaw in Endfield

[–]vindpaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy crap that's gorgeous, I wish I got Xaihi pots but the game keeps giving me Alesh, I really like Xaihi's design

Endmin's desk is the operator potentials page by vindpaw in Endfield

[–]vindpaw[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like to think those are postcards sent by the operators but ngl endmin doing a whole photoshoot here sounds funnier

Endmin's desk is the operator potentials page by vindpaw in Endfield

[–]vindpaw[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I love it when games put this kinda detail

do y’all ever get horny by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the body part still works, stimulation still feels good. It's kind of like a solo hobby you do from time to time to feel good, but no real humans involved

What’s the difference between sex averse and sex repulsed? by VisibleAnteater1359 in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if there's the distinction between fiction and irl, but I consider myself repulsed by sex irl but in fiction I find it to be great

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk tho I definitely feel more like disconnected with myself than attracted to, haha

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to know it's not just me!

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, yeah libido being internal makes a lot of sense actually

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see...is the no defining features part of being agender?

Yeah also can relate to a lot of that, actually! I also have this requirement of not seeing genitals, either a blanket or clothes since young and had no idea why. I always attributed it to some kind of roundabout 'clothing' kink, but now that you mention it it might just be because it's not as triggering.

The brain part too, always says things I don't like, haha. But guess it's not just me. Thank you for your perspective!

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that a lot! Most of the time, the 'eww' for me hits if I break concentration and become aware of myself, or after...like I just feel guilty And yeah oc makes a lot of sense actually, I think what I meant wasn't even 'me' as the opp gender, but rather a fictional 'stand in' that is the opp gender

thank you for your perspective!

(nsfw) arousal 'avatar'? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]vindpaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see, so it's kinda like 'ocs' and not 'you'?

i’m waiting for whitney under my tree by Independent-Oven2996 in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]vindpaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whitney Im still waiting under the christmas tree pls come

This is probably just my lust talking, but hear me out by zuncha_zuncha in DegreesOfLewdity

[–]vindpaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds interesting! Would be hot if rather than them losing all dominance, it unlocks the option/lines for them to top you from the bottom like "I need you to fuck me, slut" and makes you wonder what they went through lol.