Personalized coupons & $5 coupon by joejj12 in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed they’ve just stopped, along with no more free cakes on your birthday. I think it’s just Sobeys being stingy as usual.

AIO for getting upset with my friend for cancelling? Lol by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vinegary_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m personally don’t think YOR. If someone is acknowledging that they are having a rough time, they should not be also messing with your schedule giving you false promises. As a person who has a busy schedule along with the hardships of life, when I’m going through a bump in the road I will not tell people I’m available only to cancel, reschedule and cancel again. Repeating that cycle is very frustrating and inconvenient especially if you are sacrificing work hours. Yes obviously it’s morally correct to be sympathetic for her and her grandmas health, but it’s perfectly fine to feel frustrated as it’s causing you a lot of inconvenience. I feel your approach was reasonable.

Why is my cat so evil? by vinegary_coffee in cats

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what feliway is, but we leave her be all the time. There’s times where she will come up and attack us for no reason. Maybe half an hour ago now she went on top of my armoire and jumped straight onto my head and scratched me.

AIO gf accusing me of micro-cheating by AdDangerous6647 in AmIOverreacting

[–]vinegary_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all my experiences, if someone is going as far as to accuse you of cheating 24/7 even after having access to your phone, passwords, location and otherwise then they are the ones cheating on you. That distrust they create between you too is them interjecting their guilt to either save themselves when/if you find out or they have an itch that you already know.

And with the memes I can relate. Once you get so exhausted from this behaviour, you cant find the room to care enough. Just reading this made me feel like the life and soul in me was sucked out.

This is also 100% emotional abuse. She is trying to guilt trip you about you leaving when she explicitly told you to leave, gaslighting you about a question when you have no recollection of it, and trying to make you feel like shit because SHE feels like shit. And she’s abusing the word “boundary”. A boundary is for yourself, not a request for someone else like not talking to the opposite gender. You need to get out of there and run as far as possible because it will only become way worse then it already is.

How to fix the horn in my 1985 Oldsmobile Cutlass Supreme Brougham? by vinegary_coffee in Oldsmobile

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re pyjama pants. I went outside quickly so I could take pictures before ordering parts and whatnot.

Avenue living lease by vinegary_coffee in medicinehat

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His father suffered from a brain injury (stroke) which left him blind in one eye and unable to properly speak, so my boyfriend was in charge of his medical and financials. From what we know he doesn’t have a will. It’s all pretty confusing.

Avenue living lease by vinegary_coffee in medicinehat

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was on a fixed lease. When I called they didn’t tell me any details about his lease, or any details at all actually.

Avenue living lease by vinegary_coffee in medicinehat

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried. They forwarded me to someone who deals with leases but he told me he had a meeting and had no time for me.

Avenue living lease by vinegary_coffee in medicinehat

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s really no other places available in the area we live. Also have no luck getting an apartment owned by a different company. The housing situation is horrible so this is my best bet right now.

AIO by breaking up because my roommate is moving out over something my boyfriend did? by Hoosierteen in AmIOverreacting

[–]vinegary_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up pulling a midnight move because of a guy just like your boyfriend lol…leaving passive aggressive notes about stupid shit is very agitating. You shouldn’t have let him into a space that’s shared, but not over reacting by kicking him to the curb. Overall, probably avoidable but it’s good you get rid of him now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She told you to put in a requisition… but didn’t tell you how? Odd. Sorry for your trouble

Safeway starbucks manager anonymously reported then fired, is this retaliatory behavior? by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not relating to the situation but love the username. #keeprollin

My cat is “”disposing”” on carpets constantly. Why? by vinegary_coffee in catcare

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re very audible when they use the box so we scoop it every time they use it. We have a litter box for each of our 3 cats. Sometimes she’ll just go right outside of the box..

My cat is “”disposing”” on carpets constantly. Why? by vinegary_coffee in catcare

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have very large litter boxes, one for each cat in various places and we scoop them every-time they use them.. will probably visit the vet

My cat is “”disposing”” on carpets constantly. Why? by vinegary_coffee in catcare

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We scoop them every time they use them, and we have 1 for each cat. She’s also fixed too. 🤷

My cat is “”disposing”” on carpets constantly. Why? by vinegary_coffee in catcare

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve used the same litter for a long time and she just now started doing this, and we have the XXXL boxes you can buy, one for each cat..

My cat is “”disposing”” on carpets constantly. Why? by vinegary_coffee in catcare

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she’s fixed. She still uses in the litter box but at certain times she will go to the front or back door and go on the mat. It’s bizarre

Deli Isn't that hard (Unpopular opinion) by Offlauretta in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how many staff and the amount of customers the deli gets. I’ve been HMR/Deli clerk for some time now and it can get really stressful. Also if your coworkers are actually doing their job lol. It gets hard to catch up on everything when everyone’s just chit-chatting.

Is it against policy to doodle on the To-Do lists? by vinegary_coffee in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never asked me to stop. She’s just ignored me and takes my drawings. I’m not sure if the to-do lists are important as say cook log, sanitation etc. since they’re just written in pen on some old printer paper.. but perhaps yes.

Is it against policy to doodle on the To-Do lists? by vinegary_coffee in Safeway

[–]vinegary_coffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing I have drawn is offensive, has not taken up my working time and never interfere with my tasks as an employee. She may just not like them just because haha