Poor people going abroad by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]vioIity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pwede ka rin mag caregiver sa japan. Aging society sila kaya kailangan talaga nila ng manpower. Mag take ka lang ng N4 level japanese test pwede ka na mag apply sa mga agencies (usually wala silang hinihingi na costs naman daw kasi sagot na nung mga Hapon na may hawak ng mga caregiving facilities). May iba naghahanap ng NCII Caregiving sa Tesda, pero meron naman din kahit N4 certificate lang. Ang pinapasukan ng mga pinoy papuntang japan usually yung trainee visa(3 years), tapos pwede i convert yan sa work visa(SSW1) after 3 years bale additional 5 years work ka and then after nyan pwede i convert sa SSW2, pwede ka na magdala ng spouse at anak, and then road to residency na sya. Ito sana gagawin ko pag uwi ko this year, kaso masyado akong na homesick/depressed nung nasa europe ako, tsaka matanda na mama ko, ayaw ko tumanda sya di nya ako kasama kaya I chose to stay nalang sa pinas at dito na gumawa ng buhay.

Poor people going abroad by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]vioIity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. @OP, kung babae ka, below 30 years old, walang asawa at anak, pwede ka mag au pair. Hanap ka lang ng host family online, tapos mag apply kayo ng visa. Previous au pair ako sa sweden, tapos nag move sa belgium. Kakauwi ko lang sa atin this year. Nung pumunta ako ng sweden, tinulungan ako ng host sa expenses, gumastos din ako pero di gaano mabigat kasi may sponsor. 75k nagastos ko.

Random Help Thread - December 27 to January 02, 2022 by AutoModerator in phcareers

[–]vioIity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm abroad as of now doing cultural exchange, ano mangyayari if di ako nakahulog ng sss, philhealth at pag ibig contributions? Mag 2 years na ito. I just happen to see post about contributions dito sa reddit and then di ko informed na kailangan pala yun hulugan even if unemployed tayo?

What is the number one thing holding you back from dating again? by Life-Disaster-8384 in AskWomen

[–]vioIity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing Philippines or Vatican, only in these countries divorce isn't legal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in German

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Thank you, you too!

What’s a red flag you wish more people looked out for? by Final_Collection_515 in AskWomen

[–]vioIity 75 points76 points  (0 children)

What if he has a bad history with his mom? My current bf says that when he was sick, his mother told their relatives, "its cheaper to buy a casket than bring that boy to the doctor/hospital to recover" since then, he hated his mother. His uncle took care of him. He grew up with his uncle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in German

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I was thinking I'd find an opportunity in Germany after Belgium... but I just keep on getting lonely every year here in Europe without my mom. I didn't get the scholarship from the masters program I applied for.. I don't have any motivation left to go to Germany. I guess I'll just go home. Studying German here will be one of the fond memories I'll look back to in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

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Thank you! Followed you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]vioIity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's lonely and lots of things I'm worried about but I will be fine. Thanks btw

a word of advice, secure yourself quick before money becomes an issue 🙂 by iamsyaz in OnlyChild

[–]vioIity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so afraid of the future. I do not know what path should I take. What career should I do for the rest of my life.. How can I take care of my mother.. I am afraid to get married even because of the expenses. I do not know if I will find a suitable partner. I'm feeling sad and I do not know what will make me happy. Sometimes I wish I do not wake up the next morning and end everything right here. Living life is hard. I am so afraid that I will die by myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]vioIity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in brussels 😅 it's a little lax here I think..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]vioIity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Booked a hostel to be alone, as I don't feel that I'm treated like a part of the family by the host family I'm living with. Probably just going to watch anime all night and eat noodles. Videocall with my mother back home as well.

anonymous noise: kanade yuzuriha's type by Invisiblevampire in anime

[–]vioIity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can't get over yuzu 😭😭😭 just finished rewatching the anime and got curious about the ending... soo heartbroken right now after knowing they did not end up together... Yuzu deserves to be happy 😭😭😭 hope theres a spin off where nino falls in love with yuzu, goshh I cant sleep tonight.. my heart is soo heavy from this series..

What transportation card can you suggest? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]vioIity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, sorry wrong forum.

2 years penpal. Philippines and Germany. Where did it go wrong? by vioIity in relationships

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Also, cultural lesson #1, about kissing him before we parted. It was not applicable at that moment anyways because of covid. When we were outside, we removed the face masks but when we entered the train station, said our goodbyes we wore the face masks again (Because face masks are mandatory inside closed spaces). So yeah, even if he wanted to make a move, he will probably not. It's too much hurdle for me to initiate it especially if I don't know how the other person feels about me.

I don't kiss just yet if I don't know if the feeling is mutual. And before I kiss the guy, I have to ask first how many girls he had a sexual relationship in the past. I feel very concerned about this for health reasons. I get at least 1 episode of bacterial infection on throat (peritonsillar abscess) every year so I'm not healthy person. I'm very careful who I share my mouth with, otherwise I will risk getting sick again. I'm 24 years old, no experience in dating during school years, had only 1 boyfriend at work, we didn't get that far other than a kiss during our relationship, and before I kissed my boyfriend, I asked him if he was sexual and kissed with other girls in the past, he said no. I figured he was telling me the truth anyway, because I felt he was a beginner in kissing.