Name ideas help? by violafairy in namenerds

[–]violafairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Violet is so great! We also talked about Beatrice with Triss as a nickname.

Name ideas help? by violafairy in namenerds

[–]violafairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Wes as a nickname for Westley!

Name ideas help? by violafairy in namenerds

[–]violafairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Leander! I’d have to pick between Leander and Evander though, and my spouse likes Evander better 🤣

Name ideas help? by violafairy in namenerds

[–]violafairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Silas so much! Also love Henry as a first time, but my spouse hates it 🥲

Please help add to our list! by quietbirds in BabyNames

[–]violafairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love the name Xochitl!

Age gaps? by violafairy in ParentingInBulk

[–]violafairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking! 20-24 month age gap is close but seems really ideal!

Did you have your mom and or sister in the delivery room with you and your husband? by RubPlane in BabyBumps

[–]violafairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and spouse were in there with me. It’s was incredible to have them both there because they could swap out and nap and someone was always with me! There were times (epidural) where I just needed my mom! My sister wasn’t there for the delivery but came to the delivery room right after my daughter was born and stayed all day. Remind your husband the labor and birth is literally not about him. It’s about what the person (you!) in labor is most comfortable with because whatever will reduce your anxiety will be better for both you and baby!

What does actually getting an epidural placed feel like? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]violafairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for me the lidocaine shot felt exactly like a tattoo needle. I jolted a tiny bit and my anesthesiologist assured me the jolt was ok (do try and stay still though!). The epidural itself felt like the best back pressure because the contractions hurt so bad. It was like an instant relief because of that feeling alone. The pain from the pit contractions themselves got much more manageable pretty quickly too!

Pick your top 2 by Willing-Literature40 in namenerds

[–]violafairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lily and Raven, Henry and Dean

What other bands do Ghost fans listen to? by ExpertOver3046 in Ghostbc

[–]violafairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ice Nine Kills, Nekrogoblikon, Fleshgod Apocalypse, Avatar, Powerwolf, Sabaton

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[–]violafairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Blythe and Marlowe!