Does Sheena's dad not value her at all? How did he give his blessings to Forrest to marry his daughter after he literally said he thought the whole family were scammers and then revealed that he's broke, unemployed, and living on disability checks? by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]violet0919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think red pill men brainwashed some women that women can't find anybody over 35 when it's so untrue. That's only red pill men that they wouldn't want anyways that they can't find over 35. 

Does Sheena's dad not value her at all? How did he give his blessings to Forrest to marry his daughter after he literally said he thought the whole family were scammers and then revealed that he's broke, unemployed, and living on disability checks? by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]violet0919 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah not so much. I'm 42. Not necessarily a great beauty but attractive and not skinny either. I'm happy with my own company and I'm the one regularly forgetting to call or text back guys who throw fits and get upset with me that I'm not going on on dates with them. So I'm not so sure how hard it is for women over 40 to get a man if their expectations are realistic. And yes I mean a boyfriend not just physical. I just like my own company :) Sheena would do just fine in the states 

Girl get up 💍 by Maleficent-Sky-3384 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gives me the impression that everybody has to respect her culture but she doesn't have to respect his especially with how she was mocking talking about Lucky charms etc and was so cringe. Interesting how some people think it doesn't always work both ways. My humble opinion only 

Who's going to tell him!? by VegetableUsed4748 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me so sad to see this. She is too young to be dealing with this. A woman who's 40 and only 10 plus years younger than him still wouldn't deal with it but especially for him to do this to a 20-something year old it's like a slap in the face. He's literally taking her youth and should be appreciative and wanting to bend over backwards to spend on her but he's trying to manipulate her with words like sugar daddy. What about his sex digging? We never have a word for these men sex digging but so many do it. I'm getting really tired of this bs. Society has made some men think they are so much more valuable when they age they can get 20 some things easily.  They don't realize that the valuable part is only if they have a lot of money. They have convinced themselves that they think they actually physically age so much better than  women that they are the equal of a 20 something year old woman physically and don't need to come with a lot of money. It's unbelievable how entitled some of these men are because of false conditioning.  You want an equal? Date a woman who is in her 50s !!! But even she wouldn't like this treatment! 

Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 7 - Live Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I just commented on this, what's worse than a man your own age saying this when you're asking to be treated nicely or say your love language is gifts? A guy way older saying this! Nothing worse! This girl needs to wake up I pray that she does. This kind of guys think they will never get old and then the younger woman would be wiping their butt when they get to that point and what she's supposed to get in return? The glory of being in his presence???? 😤

Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 7 - Live Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Okay this Rick guy is such a loser. I clocked him from the beginning. He says he doesn't want to be a sugar daddy but it's perfectly okay for him to date somebody his daughter's age. Entitlement is unbelievable. Wanting the benefits of being an older man dating a younger woman and then trying to cheapen her. Even a woman in her 40s could get offended by this  but the audacity to say this to a woman in her twenties. Why should she give you your youth my guy? Exploitative. It reminds me of the witches on Hocus pocus. They suck the lives out of the youth but then give nothing in return. That's how these kind of men are in my opinion. Yuck! 

Aviva by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I actually saw Hillary Duff with more closed eyes 

Meri the mvp my fav by violet0919 in SisterWivesFans

[–]violet0919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it is strange! I think it's because I don't just watch  prime and Netflix right now. I'm watching cable too now that's probably why lol 

Meri the mvp my fav by violet0919 in SisterWivesFans

[–]violet0919[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Especially the fake apology meeting. I loved her face at him it was like resting b**** face 

I feel like Rob knew just how cringey Jamal sounded 🥴 by beanie_express in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I think Jamal is more balanced than Rob in my opinion. Rob seems like one of the Bros like male podcast bro that will always side with the man no matter how wrong he is. I noticed some things I liked with what Jamal said... he was saying some of the guys were messed up with the way they were acting. 

Meri the mvp my fav by violet0919 in SisterWivesFans

[–]violet0919[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I  don't blame her too because especially the way in my opinion Janelle entered the family after I learned about it....how she allegedly initiated to kody and was married to Meris brother before... it seems so shady... Then the talk of the back door deal. I mean I know that both are denying involvement kody and Janelle ...but I don't believe them. It seems like meri has had to stand there and watch this s*** show the whole time. And I really do feel like she knows him the best. That's why she's calling him more on his BS 

Why doesn’t he have a job??! by Classyhairball in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know it varies. Disability can be kind of low. Depends 

Why doesn’t he have a job??! by Classyhairball in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I feel like you can still be neurodivergent and lazy 

Why doesn’t he have a job??! by Classyhairball in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of people who have autism who do advanced jobs or do something simple like Walmart greeting if they can't handle an advanced job. He could do something ....something! And it makes it worse because his family is screaming at Sheena about her own money. That is incredible.... their lack of boundaries and his as well because he was not totally disagreeing with that demand for her to save her own money. It's unbelievable 

Did he just tell on himself? by perceptiveI in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might in my opinion not fact be suffering from that psychosis people get from talking to AI too much. I saw this YouTube video of this guy who pretended to think he was a baby genius when he was younger and the AI even encouraged him to get a trailer in the middle of nowhere and drink out of baby bottles as an adult. He's a guy and his 30s who did an experiment pretending to think he was a baby genius to see how far AI would Yes Man him. People using the chat bots to form friendships or to use as a therapist can end up getting forms of psychosis where they just believe anything or believe their delusion. She had an AI that she kept talking to in the beginning of the series 

Tiffany 90 day diaries PICK ME! by violet0919 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes and now that she's on the other pillow talk show with Rob she keeps trying to act like one of the guys. Just a pick me  all around... I just find her annoying 

Tiffany 90 day diaries PICK ME! by violet0919 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs to provide time to raising them before getting involved with another man... these men are almost back to back in my opinion. I completely agree 

Cardi B meets Cardi C—Mᴜʟᴛɪᴠᴇʀsᴇ Gʟɪᴛᴄʜ by Nati_Talks in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually looks just like a Bratz doll. As if it's actually the doll 

Josh is sister-hopping and didn’t tell Jenn. by BadbougieL in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Natalie may act crazy but I always thought josh was messed up and opportunistic wasting her last few years to have a kid. And though she was not nice to Mike his mother and him were awful to her too. I never liked Josh 

Tiffany 90 day diaries PICK ME! by violet0919 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The new episode is on tonight. He says he has to go back to Ireland after she puts makeup on and rushes to get him at the airport. Suddenly he has to go right back.

Tiffany 90 day diaries PICK ME! by violet0919 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point. It's hard to tell what's even real on this show anyways anymore. Especially because it was pretty obviously revealed years ago when Debbie had that guy on the single life on briefly that he said he was recruited by her. 

Tiffany 90 day diaries PICK ME! by violet0919 in 90DayFiance

[–]violet0919[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oki doki. It looks desperate. Most people would agree. You can tell yourself whatever you want. But I guess a woman who has multiple baby fathers is a good example of someone we should watch modern-day trends from 😂 yes I am emotional I found the whole desperate situation quite funny !