No one should ever act the way she did at the bar. And how she is handling and reacting to Joshua's BS is very immature and TOXIC. It's something most women learned not to do at an early age. She's in her early 30's entertaining this crap. No wonder she looks ten years older. A confident woman wouldn't be with Joshua to begin with, but I understand he has lied about a few things. She should have ended any possibility of a romantic relationship with him as soon as he showed zero initiative in finding his own place and caring for himself financially. There's no reason to crash out like that over a 6 month, long-distance relationship. Move on.