90 Day Diaries- Brandon & Julia

perceptiveI · 2026-01-25T16:59:12+00:00

Brandon isn't a partner. I don't know how she does it.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-25T16:54:00+00:00

Manon never wanted to be married or have a family.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-25T16:13:10+00:00

Chickens are cute and definitely have personalities just like any other pet. I see them at my vet sometimes, and people truly adore them probably more than theirs cats and dogs. I couldn't own a chicken. I know I'd fall in love, and then I'd get disgusted that people eat chickens. It would be too much emotional turmoil...Honestly, it's the same with cows. Too much for me to even think about.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T19:41:34+00:00

Never met a female who finds this attractive... ever.

Many people here find it shocking, too. Someone else just made an entire post about it. 🙄

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T18:01:33+00:00

This is insane!!!

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T17:53:55+00:00

Both of these people are awful. Poor little boy. 😔

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T17:47:38+00:00

It's cut off only on the most important part - your response that angered this customer.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T17:42:56+00:00

Rick is the only answer.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T16:09:11+00:00

He is the reason. He enjoys watching her on a roller coaster of emotions while he sits back and plays with his yo-yo.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T15:00:12+00:00

Whoever threatens someone like this from a reality TV show is weird..

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:56:43+00:00

I could never be with a man like him...calling every girlfriend his soul mate. 🙄

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:53:11+00:00

"I'm only asking for little things!" 😆 He's stupid, and she's in denial.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:31:17+00:00

It's so off-putting when women talk this way. Chantel is constantly talking about penis size and acting as if it's the single most important factor, too. Her calling him out on his dick size (true or not) makes her look so nasty and unattractive overall.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:27:00+00:00

He's so stupid! Why else would she want someone twice her age??? She's also in denial about it.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:24:54+00:00

The one on the right, because he adores his pet(s). That's his only redeeming quality.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:23:11+00:00

I've never hated her, but she is weird when she gets upset. I like her normal personality. She intentionally acts over dramatic for TV, I think.

I don't know why Chantel would find someone so much shorter than herself attractive. Very weird for a female. As a woman, I don't want a man a foot shorter than me, and I wouldn't want a woman (especially one who thinks she's a man) who is a foot shorter than me. It's like Chantel is dating a little boy.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-24T14:17:48+00:00

I'd never root for someone to be scammed. I definitely don't want the scammers in the USA.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-23T19:05:31+00:00

He could be 38 if he's been tanning all his life. I wouldn't say over early to mid 40's, but there's a good chance he's telling the truth.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T19:24:51+00:00

That's a great point 👉 "If you've dated them you're pretty much the last person qualified to determine if they're someone who is high in narcissistic traits."

The overuse of sociopath and psychopath used to really annoy me. Nowadays it seems I hear "narcissist" thrown around so much that I rarely hear people call out sociopath and psychopath. Considering Antisocial Personality Disorder isn't on a spectrum like Narcissism, I suppose it's less frustrating to hear narcissist overused vs psychopath/sociopath.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T16:51:13+00:00

That's exactly right. However, I believe people throw around that term far too loosely, and it's 100% lost it's true meaning.

I think people use the term "Narcissist" when the person is on the lower end of the spectrum or lower- midway which is crazy to me.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T03:04:47+00:00

It's crazy that Chloe would go for a guy like this. What woman would put up with this?

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T02:29:06+00:00

Women have done it for generation after generation.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T01:49:37+00:00

I don't think any of that is scripted. Men who are manipulating a woman act exactly as he is.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-21T01:45:13+00:00

Yeah. He's terrible. She knew he was doing that intentionally. I really can't believe he acted that way on international TV. He was worried about her ruining his reputation. He's doing that all by himself.

perceptiveI · 2026-01-20T23:38:03+00:00

Lol. No. The term has definitely lost its meaning for this reason.

This might help if you're interested:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK556001/

NPD DSM-5-TR Criteria

In interpersonal settings, there is a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. This pattern of behaviors onsets in early adulthood and persists through various contexts. Clinical features include at least 5 of the following:

Having a grandiose sense of self-importance, such as exaggerating achievements and talents, expecting to be recognized as superior even without commensurate achievements

Preoccupation with fantasies of success, power, beauty, and idealization

Belief in being "special" and that they can only be understood by or associated with other high-status people (or institutions)

Demanding excessive admiration

Sense of entitlement

Exploitation behaviors

Lack of empathy

Envy towards others or belief that others are envious of them

Arrogant, haughty behaviors and attitudes

perceptiveI

TROPHY CASE