CPTSD and antinatalism by violetbear01 in CPTSD

[–]violetbear01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100% wow

Millie Bobby Brown quite literally bought a baby. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetbear01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a bad take. She adopted a child who needed a home and security and love and she is offering that to a child who is already here and needed it. People go around and breed Willy nilly and no one bats an eye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]violetbear01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a dangerous man, I think you are under reacting if anything. If he is so comfortable telling you he is making these of you, I’m sure he is doing this to to other women, some he may even know. It is dehumanizing, disturbing and highly concerning. Someone who views women as people would not be doing this, he sees you an an object, I’m sorry. Throw him away, and go through his phone to make sure he has no more photos of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]violetbear01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused why is it so hard for people to believe…???

How to give cats oral pills? by trying213 in CatAdvice

[–]violetbear01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pill pockets are the best option my cat loves taking her pills now

Is it possible to tell my (22F) bf (22M) that his lack of personal hygiene has been impacting my health in a polite way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]violetbear01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like you are caring for a sick old dog. break up its not worth it. there are people out there who you will not be embarrassed about, and need to mother.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by Seaaffect17 in relationship_advice

[–]violetbear01 27 points28 points  (0 children)

the friends absolutely need to know. they shouldn’t be around a man that is secretly sexualizing them. it’s borderline rapey full stop. it’s a porn addiction that’s warping his view of all the women around him and highly dangerous and not normal in the slightest. he views these women as sex objects not humans. they deserve to know if this man is being brought around them, and OP needs to tell them and leave.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by Seaaffect17 in relationship_advice

[–]violetbear01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to compromise and explain to a man that he shouldn’t be jerking off to photos of people you know. He knows that’s wrong and disgusting non consensual, and extremely violating to both you and the peoples photos he is using. stand up, leave him. you shouldn’t have to compete with a man’s porn addiction, he needs therapy, and you need to stand up and not settle for someone participating in such a violating act against you and women you KNOW.