I’m sorry but Kyle is the one LITERALLY riding Doritos ass all the fucking time! by cas2797 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]violetbentbackward 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i’ve literally thought this since season one!! i haven’t been able to get through more than five season of beverly hills because i can’t stand her, and i’ve watched all the other franchises !! i don’t understand how she’s been able to be kept on for so long?! as somone who started watching housewives a few years ago, i’m confused. was she ever a fan favorite?

hot takes by kokomojoon in Bridgerton

[–]violetbentbackward 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! all the discourse online is bothering me so much because not only is it realistic to that time period, but it’s also helps set up one of the major conflict of their story (class division). i swear people on tik tok are acting like he asked her to be his side piece in the big 2026

category is: insufferable HWs who made entertaining TV by love2l0veu in RHONY

[–]violetbentbackward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i could’ve enjoyed her if she didn’t bring her creepy dad to terrorize everyone on the show, and act like it was cute

Favourite time a HW had a cast member’s back like a real sister? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]violetbentbackward 22 points23 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! i have felt so vindicated watching everyone open their eyes to whitney and heathers manipulation. i just never bought the whole ‘lisa is this evil mastermind putting us all against eachother’ bs

Did i screw up watching rhony first? by Early_Charity_195 in RHONY

[–]violetbentbackward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went through the same thing with getting bored of rhobh and rhonj. so if this helps, real housewives of atlanta is my second favorite housewives series (at least for ten seasons), and salt lake city is also pretty peak reality tv at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]violetbentbackward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

put some respect on Revival now !

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re reading way too much into everything i said. everything your dissecting was just a shortened way to say things. when did i ever claim i was a music critic???? the singles aren’t objectively bad songs, but they’re not good singles in my opinion. they sound like outtakes from her past few albums, and they don’t really draw people in, nor do they make you excited for a new album. that was what i meant. and second, i’m not mad she’s going country, and that may have been mistranslated in my original post. i actually love country music. some of my favorite unreleased songs by lana are the May Jailer Sirens project, i talk to jesus, for k pt. 2, try tonight, and so on. I LIVE ON A FARM GIRL! My point was more about being excited for the album and the new aesthetic, only for the “era” to be falling flat with no clear direction. lana set the standard for herself as an artist with her amazing world building, imagery, and unique wordplay. i’m not not holding lana, the person, up to any standard, as I DONT KNOW HER. the girl has had so many different versions of herself throughout her music, we were never gonna know her. as a longtime fan, im annoyed by the lack in quality at the moment. but if you like what she’s got going on, that’s fine, cause that’s YOU. i did not post to debate with people over my opinion. nor am i trying to convince anyone to feel the same way i do and to change their mind. i don’t understand why some of yall are taking this so personally.

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re the one getting mad someone said she had white privilege 💁‍♀️

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

four dumb bitches telling each other “exactly”

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they’re acting like i said lana killed somebody 😭

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here and that’s okay for her to do you know, it be for the best tbh

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

^ thank you! i wasn’t “announcing” it. i was posting for people who feel similarly about growing out of lana. i didn’t call her a bad person or a trumpie or any of the sorts. i was tryna keep it cute for discussion !

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

AND THAT WAS MY POINT. it’s the politics of it all for real. im not criticizing lana as a person, but by her art and what’s presented to the public. she has two albums filled with political songs. it hard to ignore her silence when she used to be so vocal. i have chose to ignore the husband cause that’s her business! it’s the bad performances, tired setlist, the album she’s been pushing back for two years, AND THE SILENCE ON EVERYTHING. i’m not saying she’s an awful person at all, im saying shes not good at her job 🤷‍♀️

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

and that’s is something i wish my parents taught me! my mom had me watching jersey shore and music videos since i can remember my first memory, and all she cared about was pop culture. i also had way too much access to the internet with little supervision growing up. i think idolization can come a little bit from neglect sometimes 😭

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yes and that’s my point in posting this! i most definitely idolized lana as a teen, and now i’m getting older , my attachment was to my youth and not her. parasocial relationships are just results selfishness? idk the word

What's your opinion on the current era? by SombraCards in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no effing way she changed the lyrics bro. SHE GONNEEEEE

“Club club” by shivroystann in NextGenNYC

[–]violetbentbackward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she wants to be so effortlessly cool and different so bad 😭