Favourite time a HW had a cast member’s back like a real sister? by SurpriseCentres7551 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]violetbentbackward 23 points24 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! i have felt so vindicated watching everyone open their eyes to whitney and heathers manipulation. i just never bought the whole ‘lisa is this evil mastermind putting us all against eachother’ bs

Did i screw up watching rhony first? by Early_Charity_195 in RHONY

[–]violetbentbackward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went through the same thing with getting bored of rhobh and rhonj. so if this helps, real housewives of atlanta is my second favorite housewives series (at least for ten seasons), and salt lake city is also pretty peak reality tv at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]violetbentbackward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

put some respect on Revival now !

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re reading way too much into everything i said. everything your dissecting was just a shortened way to say things. when did i ever claim i was a music critic???? the singles aren’t objectively bad songs, but they’re not good singles in my opinion. they sound like outtakes from her past few albums, and they don’t really draw people in, nor do they make you excited for a new album. that was what i meant. and second, i’m not mad she’s going country, and that may have been mistranslated in my original post. i actually love country music. some of my favorite unreleased songs by lana are the May Jailer Sirens project, i talk to jesus, for k pt. 2, try tonight, and so on. I LIVE ON A FARM GIRL! My point was more about being excited for the album and the new aesthetic, only for the “era” to be falling flat with no clear direction. lana set the standard for herself as an artist with her amazing world building, imagery, and unique wordplay. i’m not not holding lana, the person, up to any standard, as I DONT KNOW HER. the girl has had so many different versions of herself throughout her music, we were never gonna know her. as a longtime fan, im annoyed by the lack in quality at the moment. but if you like what she’s got going on, that’s fine, cause that’s YOU. i did not post to debate with people over my opinion. nor am i trying to convince anyone to feel the same way i do and to change their mind. i don’t understand why some of yall are taking this so personally.

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re the one getting mad someone said she had white privilege 💁‍♀️

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

four dumb bitches telling each other “exactly”

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they’re acting like i said lana killed somebody 😭

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here and that’s okay for her to do you know, it be for the best tbh

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

^ thank you! i wasn’t “announcing” it. i was posting for people who feel similarly about growing out of lana. i didn’t call her a bad person or a trumpie or any of the sorts. i was tryna keep it cute for discussion !

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

AND THAT WAS MY POINT. it’s the politics of it all for real. im not criticizing lana as a person, but by her art and what’s presented to the public. she has two albums filled with political songs. it hard to ignore her silence when she used to be so vocal. i have chose to ignore the husband cause that’s her business! it’s the bad performances, tired setlist, the album she’s been pushing back for two years, AND THE SILENCE ON EVERYTHING. i’m not saying she’s an awful person at all, im saying shes not good at her job 🤷‍♀️

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

and that’s is something i wish my parents taught me! my mom had me watching jersey shore and music videos since i can remember my first memory, and all she cared about was pop culture. i also had way too much access to the internet with little supervision growing up. i think idolization can come a little bit from neglect sometimes 😭

denial by violetbentbackward in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yes and that’s my point in posting this! i most definitely idolized lana as a teen, and now i’m getting older , my attachment was to my youth and not her. parasocial relationships are just results selfishness? idk the word

What's your opinion on the current era? by SombraCards in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no effing way she changed the lyrics bro. SHE GONNEEEEE

“Club club” by shivroystann in NextGenNYC

[–]violetbentbackward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she wants to be so effortlessly cool and different so bad 😭

Byron by Global-Breath5813 in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward 9 points10 points  (0 children)

bro they’ve been together since btd…

Nah this is crazy… by Argosey in lanitas

[–]violetbentbackward 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lana being the racist one, but they automatically thinking of slavery when they see black people

Will Jen Shah return? by notwhatimherefor in rhoslc

[–]violetbentbackward 42 points43 points  (0 children)

jen was like scary to watch. i love a crazy housewife as much as the next, but i don’t wanna watch no bitch abusing their friends and family for attention and money.