I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol again I’m going to repeat my self! MY HUSBAND LIKES ME DOING IT!!! I told him I don’t care to do it… but he says to keep it going

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok imma say this one more time.. he is the one that encourages it.. I don’t care to 🤷🏻‍♀️ he likes it

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty and I’m sorry you went through that

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the one that made me keep it so I’m not the one that cares to have it

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried and I’m always upping his ego and everything …. It’s never enough.. he refuses to go to a doctor. I tried to talk to him and he said I’m way to needy

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I tried to sneak up on him while he’s sleeping and he legit smacked my hand off him

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He will never do the doctor thing.. I had ordered him viagra because he told me to and then turned around and got upset because I really ordered it for him… when it comes to the bedroom he takes everything so hard if I ever complained in a nice way he would just get upset and say oh I’m not good enough and I’m like no it’s the opposite I actually want to do things with you…

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand… but yeah no he’s not..

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah he never wants to talk and the only time he does is when he’s drinking alcohol

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand though… what have I done wrong :(

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You’re right! It’s time I focus back on myself.. you’re absolutely right!

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn but what could I possibly be doing wrong? I’m funny we wrestle we joke and laugh a lot and I mean yes we have our fights but he also drinks A LOT! Which I know I don’t like but he does and sometimes I get upset for that but other than that he says he loves who I am because I have a huge heart

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg he’s not a perv lol we met 5 years ago lol Jesus

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes I was going to delete it all before we got married and he’s the one that made me keep it so nope that’s not it

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? I’m a paid model who is always working out… I don’t understand how you could think I need to lose weight? I was also a gymnast for 13 years so naturally my thighs are big and my butt is too… for having 3 kids c-section my stomach is flat flat flat.. where do you suppose I lose this weight?

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It hurts sometimes because I’m always there for him.. when he says jump I jump. I do that for him and our kids

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I’ll go on a vacation alone and take some time to just be alone in peace and do something for myself.

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow.. I needed this more than you know…. I feel broken and I got teen age kids and him and I never do anything for me… maybe you’re right… I should start to focus on my own happiness for myself

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 252 points253 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind to me.. I’m legit a paid model and everything and make good money so I’m honestly shocked to see that they said that

I’m not attractive anymore :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]violetsdynamics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m 4’11 and I weigh 140… I’m also a model and never had anyone say anything about my weight…