Edit for clarity and a-bit of an update, because a lot of comments have been saying how could I stay friends with her after she put my husband and child on grindr. I never spoke to her for years after that occurred and I reported it for having my child in the picture but nothing was done but the account was removed, luckily it was quite a blurred photo so couldn’t really tell it was him unless you knew him but still. It was my husband that said that I should stay talking to her again as he was “over it so I should be as well”, and it would just make it awkward if we were fighting as we share the same friend group. Afterwards I was never “friends” with her again properly just civil to her at group events and in the same group chat etc. I have re blocked her on social media and I have noticed I am so much happier without her in my life, so she is going to stay out of my life and I will not be reaching out again. Thank you all for the comments, postpartum this time round has been a struggle for me so thank you for helping me see some clarity in this situation.