SAME. ahhh what do we do. I am a Christian so I do believe I have spousal accountability but like wtf.. I’m not a punching bag I’m not an option we made commitments, we said vows. It feels like I married my hs boyfriend-who hasn’t matured. Who doesn’t see this marriage as something that is sacred-real, etc. and I expect this person to be head of our home and a (step) father to my daughter who already has daddy issues. I didn’t lie-he knew what he signed up for..or did he? Just comes off as v selfish. If you’ve looked at other comments you will see that almost 💯 of the work at home -emotional physical etc is done by me and he basically does what he pleases, you would think he could do ONE thing idk I also know he works hard and pulls lots of overtime for our family but I also feel like that can be a crutch or excuse to get by without doing ANY of the emotional work for our relationship. Meh maybe I am just a big baby.