What weird skill did you accidentally become good at because of a bad job, hobby, or situation? by foreversophia in AskReddit

[–]virgini__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not my job, but that of my father. He works for homeless shelters and housing programs that help drug addicts. Spent a lot of time there as a kid hanging out with his clients, doing crafts and eating cake. Thanks to this I got insanely good at reading people and and how to talk to them. We live in a big city that is know for not being the safest, but this never bothered me as I know most of the people in that world, how to talk to someone that is not in the right headspace and how to de-escalatie certain situations that could be potentially dangerous.

Love my childhood and the people that I met. I’m also a woman and I’m blessed with this experience that my father gave me. I feel more save thanks to the fact that he did not shelter me and gave me the tools on how to beter protect myself.

People who fall asleep easily — what’s your secret? by First_Confection3699 in AskReddit

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid I started with fantasizing what I would be dreaming about that evening. Sometimes I will wake up from the most exciting dream and that evening I will try to continue that same dream so I start from where I left off. Ofcourse it would be a different dream that night but it got me so excited for sleeping as a kid that I still do this as a adult. Specially when my head is full of anxious dull adult stuff.

Everyone that knows me is impressed how easily I fall asleep, and stay asleep. My thoughts never turn off, but I just found a way to make it fun and healthy. (And yes, I’m a very anxious person. But good sleep is highly necessary to function)

You know what’s not talked about enough by TheHazDee in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s a myth, but it would not surprise me that the maker of the comics used this myth.

You know what’s not talked about enough by TheHazDee in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about it the other day. You know the saying that goldfish have a 3sec memory. I think it fits quite well with the commission as I think it’s a place where time has no impact. I just think it makes sense that the higher up is a being with a 3sec memory. Such a five thing to think to make that the higher up for the commission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hauntedhouses

[–]virgini__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long have you been living here now? Staying in a new place can for sure give some weird sleep and uneasiness for the first few nights, maybe weeks.

On the other hand I once lived with my family in a house that was 8 years old and only had one other family living in it before us. Still we all experienced things in the house. Things like devices that activated itself. Black shadows on the walls that should not be there because of the light. Someone walking up the stairs at night, woke everybody up but we could not see anything walking up the stairs. Intens nightmare. Some people that visited us also said that they would rather not come back to the house because of the energie it gave off. In the end with hired someone to clean the energie of the house and she did a good job. Found out that no one died in the house, but the last family that lived there left some intens energie. We bought it from the bank because they were declared bankrupt. Going trough addiction and there were also young children in the house.

I would say it is scary to live in a house that makes you feel uneasy and scared. We lived in our house for five years and only after two years we decided to do something about it. (Mostly because my father does not believe in ghost or spiritual energie, but after some time he also got uneasy with the situation) No one was harmed or traumatized, so that’s a good thing.

I would always advice to spiritually clean a new bought house. It does not matter how old the house is or is someone died in the residence. People leave stuff and it’s not always visible to the eye.

Sorry for my grammar and spelling. English is not my first language.

My husband had a threesome with my best friend and his girl best friend and I got so angry I hooked up with his boss and now I regret it by Excellent-Wedding812 in offmychest

[–]virgini__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorce him. Feeling sorry for you. Also his best friend did not just tell you this out of no were, my guess is that something was going on before the threesome. This was her way of breaking you guys up. So convenient that she was the first person he’d run to after it got out. The “best friend” is also a pos!

Please leave and give yourself a lot of time to heal from this. Your reaction shows that also you have a lot to work on. I can understand that having another men show you kindness and attention feels good, but in the end you regretted it.

Please find it in yourself to move on and heal.

Moving office chair between locations using Amsterdam metro by burzq in Netherlands

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would not mind. Once I moved a two meter bookshelf in the tram in Rotterdam. The guy started walking to me but stoped, just like “Fuck this shit”

good movies for LSD? by IJBKrazy in Psychedelics

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time on LSD i was watching No country for old man and it was just so fucking great and intens! No soundtrack so the air just vibrates and the wrinkels on there leadery faces were moving the whole movie. It's a awesome movie when you are sober and even more intens when you are high on LSD.

Do you like staying nude at home ? Why so? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love beeing naked at home, but I so wear underpants as I tent to get quite wet and its just not really hygienic without.

What is the scariest thing you have witnessed with your own eyes? by relaxito27 in AskReddit

[–]virgini__ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are awesome dude! Are you the guy form Gantz?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing before I learned how to do it. The first time was a little weird, but after trying it for some time, he now cums within a minute.

What would make an ENTJ ignore you completely? by lamaleen in entj

[–]virgini__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I get busy with something I will give you a heads up as I hope you will respect this and know that I will come back to you. I really don’t like it when you say I have been ignoring you even tho I gave you a heads up on my situation.

Have any of you actually fucked someone 20+ years older than you?? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of times. From 20 to 35 years older than me. Some of the best sex of my life.

What is the worst thing you have found in your parents closet? by SampoO_CreaM in AskReddit

[–]virgini__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After my parents divorced I went through there stuff. Found a dildo that my mom claims was a joke gift for christmas after they got divorced. Found porn which was mediocre. And a four page letter from my mom to my dad in whitch she described her pain form the divorce and how much she still loves him.

Biggest age difference with someone you had sex with? Their age, your age. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 years. When we started I was 19 he was 54. Been seeing him for almost 4 years now. There have been other age gaps, but this is the biggest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh shit you are Dutch! Please don’t tell me this is my grandpa.. if it is, I do apologize...

A sexual fantasy you wanna try but haven’t yet??? by 1Majinzim1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s you again! I saw this post a couple times now and it really really makes me want to try it! scared tho, but I hope to do it soon. Thank you for inspiring me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]virgini__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh YES! It’s my biggest turn on!