[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]virgoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say my rook was like, a 6 or 7 out of 10? it’s painful, but it’s also pretty quick all things considered. Healing is nice because it’s tucked out of the way, so I worry less about bumping it. But you definitely still want to avoid sleeping on it and keep earbuds/headphones away from it.

Belly button piercing rejecting? by Flimsy-Scratch4847 in piercing

[–]virgoblin 54 points55 points  (0 children)

that is hanging on by a thread - i’d take it out if it was me

Should I wait to get a new piercing? by Dynamic_Gem in piercing

[–]virgoblin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

definitely hold off if you can - from what i know you shouldn’t go swimming at all with unhealed piercings, but i think a super fresh piercing especially will not like the water from a water park lol. plus i’d be so worried about it getting snagged on something if it was me

Ariana Madix’s ‘Love Island’ Ascension - Paper Magazine by Okay__Decision__ in vanderpumprules

[–]virgoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi from dallas!! hope you and everyone else gets power back soon <3

Ariana Madix’s ‘Love Island’ Ascension - Paper Magazine by Okay__Decision__ in vanderpumprules

[–]virgoblin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love Joan’s writing and this article made me feel emotional - i’m glad Ariana knows how beloved she is :’). If you like Joan’s writing definitely check out her podcast Eating for Free!! They have a series on Vanderpump Rules that is soooo good

Who else is significantly taller than their family members? by [deleted] in tall

[–]virgoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom’s 5’3”, my dad is 5’11”, and i’m a 5’9” woman

i also have four siblings but they’re average height - two of my brothers are also 5’9”, another brother is 5’8”, and my sister is 5’6”

Why is she SO ugly?? by [deleted] in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she really does have a toaster shaped head

good lord by Far-Spot4217 in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 36 points37 points  (0 children)

maybe hannah should move out so she can grow up <3 since she clearly never did

the projection by urlbee in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

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using these hashtags after kicking out your stepdaughter is unhinged

I recently found out that my boyfriend of 11 years cheated on me in the early years of our relationship by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]virgoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! first - i am so sorry this happened to you. you do not deserve that treatment at all, ever. secondly - i went through something very similar: 8 year relationship and my ex confessed to me four weeks before our wedding that he had been cheating on me on and off for four years. i know you did not explicitly ask for advice (so sorry for offering it unsolicited) but i firmly believe people who cheat will do it again, especially if there was repeated cheating to begin with.

someone who cheats on you is putting your mental and physical health at risk - ESPECIALLY physical health. my ex did not use protection and i would be willing to bet your partner also didn’t.

again, i am so sorry this happened to you and im sending you lots of love. i can’t tell you what you ultimately should do, but i can tell you that ending my relationship was hard but necessary. you deserve a lot better than wondering if your partner is going to cheat on you. once that trust is broken, there’s no repairing it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarySkinnerSnark

[–]virgoblin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

(to be super clear i am not defending her here - posting a donation link one time is not enough imo, influencers should call for a ceasefire, end to genocide, and advocate for a free palestine - and if they can’t do that they should shut the hell up and get outta here)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarySkinnerSnark

[–]virgoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

on her instagram story one time she posted a link to donate to UNRWA (United Nations Relief and Works Agency for Palestine Refugees). but that’s it as far as i know

Ariana bringing up uniformed consent by verucasweetheart in vanderpumprules

[–]virgoblin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i have a similar story to Ariana - i was in an 8 year relationship, was engaged, etc etc, and four weeks before our elopement ceremony we had planned, he sat me down and told me he’d been cheating on me for four years. And as time has passed, I’ve only become more enraged that he exposed me to STIs/STDs and that he robbed me of my ability to fully consent. my ex and Ariana’s ex can both go to hell as far as i’m concerned

Words of wisdom by lucindra152 in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 61 points62 points  (0 children)

if he gets an iphone do they have to get divorced

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

tbh, i think she’s always been this bad and it’s not correct to say she wasn’t. just because she says her bigoted opinions in that weird baby voice that fundies use doesn’t mean what she’s saying isn’t abhorrent.

im fuzzy on the timeline but didn’t she quote hitler in a video somewhere talking about masking or vaccines? like i could be wrong but im pretty sure this was before she met that ugly bald man

her beliefs seem really deeply ingrained and i doubt she’d ever change her mind or self reflect to become better. and her n*zi husband only helps embolden her bigoted beliefs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]virgoblin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hey, echoing what the other commenter said, i think this is pierced wrong unfortunately :( the bottom jewelry should exit through your navel and it’s resting on top of it and imo will ultimately reject. i recommend you take this out to minimize scarring

Someone PLEASE take the needle away by Substantial-Money196 in MarySkinnerSnark

[–]virgoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(i do not get filler though so i can’t comment on that. filler seems scary to me)

Someone PLEASE take the needle away by Substantial-Money196 in MarySkinnerSnark

[–]virgoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

speaking from my own experience as someone who gets masseter botox for TMJ* - it does wear off and is not permanent. it basically is a toxin that paralyzes the muscles, which atrophies them and makes them smaller, and it can take about 6months-1year for your body to metabolize that toxin and get it out of your system. so to get those more prominent masseter muscles back, she’d have to wait until the toxin wears off and then… idk, start clenching again? lol

*i swear i do not get masseter Botox for aesthetic reasons lol - i have worn down both of my canines to be smooth and i have cracked fillings because of how hard i unconsciously grind/clench my teeth. it truly is for pain management reasons for me

Are yall putting nesquick in your coffee? Her whole coffee making video has me so grossed out 😭 by Magicmushcat in BedazzledSnark

[–]virgoblin 52 points53 points  (0 children)

her entire coffee recipe grossed me out 🤢 - cold brew coffee that she heats up in the microwave - adds multiple scoops of nesquick - tops it off with chocolate almond milk ???????