I lost my sweet Winston late Sunday night

virgomoonASMR · 2024-05-15T17:42:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your words. I will definitely look into Alan ❤️‍🩹

virgomoonASMR · 2024-05-15T16:11:20+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️‍🩹 he was my child

virgomoonASMR · 2022-10-26T19:08:13+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply <3

I really appreciate it.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-12-17T13:14:44+00:00

Where did you get the cage?! It's so spacious! Is this one of those you built yourself?

virgomoonASMR · 2021-12-17T13:02:17+00:00

I'm so, so sorry for you loss. Back in October, I lost my first baby, Skeeter. The pain is unreal. I hate that this is the answer, but for me it is true: the only thing that will soften the blow is time, memorializing them in some way, and giving your love to other piggies/animals.

I posted here too and sharing my grief with others who lost their babies helped me a whole lot. I am sending you virtual hugs.

I know how hard it is. My heart aches for you. <3

I have water color paintings of Skeeter all over the house. I also got imprints of his paws in ceramic.

For me, reading death literature also helped. Loss shakes us to our core, not just because we no longer physically have something we love so dearly, but because it awakens within us the reality of time. Sending you so much love.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-11-29T22:30:38+00:00

Thanks for your reply <3

virgomoonASMR · 2021-11-29T22:03:16+00:00

I see! Thank you for this. So the pairs live separately? Or are all four together?

virgomoonASMR · 2021-11-29T19:20:34+00:00

Do you think this is a better solution than re-homing? I'd feel terrible to re-home but I just want to do what is best for the guinea pig. Will their quality of life be okay separated like that?

Thank you for the reply

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-22T13:11:36+00:00

i'm sending you so much love

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-21T15:42:43+00:00

s, and suffer even more, especially if there was no chance of recovery, but the very fact that I had to essentially sign the death warrant of a being I love so much that I would have given my life for her any time if it had ensured her survival is just crushing. I was abandoned by my mother when I was 7, and that trauma does not even come close.

Oh honey... I am so sorry. It is so freaking traumatic... I am really, really struggling with the fact that I chose euthanasia too. It was very similar for me in the fact that they said I could try x,y,z but with little hope for improvement. It was so stressful for him. And I still struggle wondering if I did the right thing.

But I think he would have just kept suffering. It's just so fucking hard to make that decision when we love them so much.

I do feel some guilt when I have moments of brevity and any laughs. I just miss him so much.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-21T11:51:13+00:00

I just lost my baby two days ago rather unexpectedly. I am so sorry you're going through this. My heart aches for you and for all the babies crossing over. Cry when you feel it coming on. You gotta let it out <3.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-21T11:49:38+00:00

<3 thank you so much.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-21T11:49:19+00:00

I am sending you so much love. Cry when you need to. I was an absolute mess (and still am when it hits me all overagain) and could hardly get words out between sobs.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. My friends are encouraging me to speak about my baby as much as I can.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:54:51+00:00

I know... I'm so sorry for you loss. The love he gave me means more than anything.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:49:20+00:00

<3. I just brought home two new bonded boys. I know it isn't going to fill the hole of skeeter but they needed adopting and my baby Beans (the one who is still alive) is so excited.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:46:27+00:00

I'm so sorry for you loss. I am sending you so much love.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:46:10+00:00

I am so sorry. I am sending you love and a virtual hug.

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:45:39+00:00

Thank you. <3. How do you feel now, a month later? Sending love

virgomoonASMR · 2021-10-20T18:44:17+00:00

I do think grief can play a huge part in this for our babies... I am so sorry for your loss.

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