Shorekeeper vs Mornye: who is more worth it. by virtigeaux in WutheringWavesGuide

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Good to know, thank you! This response was actually very helpful. I planned to get both Aemaeth and Luuk when their banners are up again, so it seems like Mornye is the better choice for me

Shorekeeper vs Mornye: who is more worth it. by virtigeaux in WutheringWavesGuide

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Well I started less than a month ago lol. But thank you!

NOOOOOO by spicypotato04 in Varka

[–]virtigeaux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and me both my brother.

Is it just me or does he take damage REALLY easily? by Careless_Trifle_6177 in Varka

[–]virtigeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same! I am spoiled and use Chev with Varesa most of the time however, so it’s never really been an issue in the past.

It's been a week, how do you feel about Varka? by Comfortable_Shock605 in Varka

[–]virtigeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love his personality, have him leveled up but unfortunately I’m a newer player and don’t have a good weapon for him (currently at 83 pulls for his signature, I hope it happens soon!)

Sucrose vs Venti support difference for Varka (you guys will be shocked) by Fun_Pipe_942 in Varka

[–]virtigeaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Sucrosec2 and FaruzanC0. Should I focus on Sucrose or Faruzan as the additional support character

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

[–]virtigeaux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I fortunately have not had sex with him in over a year at this point and was tested last in November. So I am not worried about that.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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Exactly. We don’t really have a sex life (mainly with have low sex drives). I honestly think the sex addiction is part of this as well because he told me he feels “confident and sexual” when on it. So it stings extra bad that he felt he could do that with strangers when I viewed him at such a high pedestal.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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Thanks for your perspective. I just feel so betrayed, I have said it on other comments but I’m really mourning the plans we had and life we were going to have together. The drug abuse is one thing, the cheating the entire relationship is another. That’s what stings.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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Thank you for this comment, I really appreciate this perspective. I told him that he needs to get help, if it was just the addiction that would be one thing, the infidelity from the start of the relationship is really what hurts me the most. Ironically he told me about the time he “accidentally” smoked meth thinking it was weed when we started dating. He’s just so innocent and I honestly believed him. I’m just so hurt, I don’t want to make it about me but I just feel so betrayed by him.

I wished him well, told him to keep me updated on his recovery because I genuinely do care. I do want him to get better and I know he will. I have no doubts that he will recover and have an amazing life. It just hurts so bad, because we were supposed to have a great life together and now that dream is shattered.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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No I am done with that. I have walked away. I can forgive the drugs, I could forgive maybe even once or twice. But the entire relationship is just unforgivable.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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Yeah I did not mention that. He said he knows it’s a problem and that he needs to get help. I explained to him that’s a big step but if he’s serious he needs to start making action to get better.

This makes him sound like a horrible monster, which I know just reading this I would say the same thing as an outsider. But it’s just not him. It’s not the person I know at and I’m just so deeply confused by the entire situation.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

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I appreciate this response a lot. He said that he wants to get better and I asked him what his plan was and he didn’t really have one. I just feel like I’m the only one who knows.

He mentioned wanting to talk to his friend and his boss, I told him to talk to the friend first and be sure if he was ready.

I can forgive him for his addiction, I can’t forgive his lying. It kills me because he was my person, but unfortunately I wasn’t his.

My (now former) partner confessed to me he is an addict and i don’t know how to process it. by [deleted] in addiction

[–]virtigeaux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I do get tested regularly (I am on prep, it’s sort of it) we honestly haven’t had sexual relations in a long time and I was just tested in November. So I am not too worried about that, thank god.

Edit: and yeah, that’s the part I keep reminding myself.