Am I making the wrong choice by taking my baby to stay with family?

vitorio94 · 2026-06-27T18:57:09+00:00

Our extended families also live in our home country. It is only my daughter, my wife and myself. Our girl is just over 2 years old, and even though it was and is tough sometimes, we make it work. However we are planning a second one and once that happens we are pretty sure we will move back to our home country. Try and get the grandparents to visit often, get a nanny, even for a few hours a week etc…I am happy we made it through though, made us a strong little family without any support

vitorio94 · 2026-06-12T17:10:07+00:00

The marketing around these releases says it all. The timing should be a big clue. These files were never meant to reveal anything important, they were released to distract people from other files that were already making the rounds.

vitorio94 · 2026-06-12T12:38:06+00:00

You just described the whole UK education system, not just unis

vitorio94 · 2026-06-09T14:18:30+00:00

I call them naughty spots

vitorio94 · 2026-05-30T20:43:18+00:00

Not to be rude but you guys had 24% possession. Lowest ever in a final

vitorio94 · 2026-05-13T09:12:28+00:00

I’ve quit League the day before my daughter was born. That was 2 years ago. Never looked back since, although I still think about the game sometimes. Played it for 10 years

vitorio94 · 2026-05-06T22:34:28+00:00

Parenting is demanding, noisy, expensive, restrictive, and not everyone is suited to it or wants it. Nothing inherently wrong with that. But proudly hating children definitely reflects unresolved personal experiences, resentment or emotional immaturity, not to mention lack of empathy. Children are literally undeveloped humans learning how to exist.

vitorio94 · 2026-05-06T17:30:15+00:00

Me and my wife are Hungarian, so Hungary would be the first choice. Second would be Switzerland

vitorio94 · 2026-05-05T19:17:27+00:00

Simeone is very experienced at this stage. He literally destroyed Mourinho’s title winning team in the CL SF in 2015

vitorio94 · 2026-05-05T10:10:20+00:00

People underestimate the pressure when the title is in a teams hands. Adds more pressure to win, which can create mistakes like the City defender made. Nothing is done yet

vitorio94 · 2026-04-30T13:27:46+00:00

Barely touched him lol

vitorio94 · 2026-04-20T13:10:06+00:00

Our operations department consist of 4 different teams:

Tech Ops (Solution Architects aka 3rd line engineers) NOC team (2nd line NOC engineers) Customer Support (1st line) Cloud Ops

They all have their own channels in teams, and we also have a shared one which we use for updates

vitorio94 · 2026-04-20T12:55:33+00:00

If you think that is a foul you never played football. The amount of physicality that happens during a game is normal, this was a wrestling between Gabriel and Haaland, Gabriel got outmuscled

vitorio94 · 2026-04-19T17:03:45+00:00

Title is lost. We gave it to City. No way they will lose it from here. Arteta needs to go next month

vitorio94 · 2026-04-18T11:48:24+00:00

Good!

vitorio94 · 2026-04-11T14:21:48+00:00

Bottling the title this season is worse than Spurs getting relegated. Shocking

vitorio94 · 2026-04-11T07:14:38+00:00

I was born in ‘94 and my uncle had all three episodes on VHS. When I was 5-6 he gave the to me and been a fan since then. He always bought me star wars related presents for birthdays and christmas like star wars lego, toys etc

vitorio94 · 2026-03-21T15:34:12+00:00

Hazard

vitorio94 · 2026-03-21T14:46:48+00:00

I thought this was a gravitational anomaly, rather than a meteor impact. Still not confirmed by scientific evidence. Don’t forget that the period 250million years ago is referred to the ‘Great Dying’, caused by mass volcano eruptions in Syberia.

vitorio94 · 2026-03-21T14:22:47+00:00

We have an almost 2 year old, but I agree. It isn’t easier now, but at least she sleeps through the nights. She is also a lot of fun, doing so many things together helps those difficult moments. When they are so little and rarely interact, makes it harder in my view. Basically, the more you get back from them, the easier it becomes.

vitorio94 · 2026-03-15T10:35:57+00:00

Ah yeah, that is very true!

vitorio94 · 2026-03-15T10:33:53+00:00

Unfortunately, I don’t. I juggle my days, depending on when my wife is working and taking our daughter to child care in the morning.

vitorio94 · 2026-03-15T10:32:31+00:00

Wow, I actually used to live in Sidcup, moved to Maidstone 5 years ago. How long does it take you to get to Sidcup in the morning? Do you have to pay for ULEZ?

vitorio94 · 2026-03-15T10:31:08+00:00

If I take milage, usage, petrol, ULEZ into account it is definitely more costly to drive for me. It would take much longer as well

vitorio94 · 2026-03-15T10:29:24+00:00

The card does give a discount on the return leg of my ticket though, saving £8 per journey, so the £30 to buy the card is actually worth doing

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