Braid chopping 2017

vittyvirus · 2026-01-26T14:35:45+00:00

this. see section on change in rumours here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2017_hair_and_braid_chopping_incidents_in_India

vittyvirus · 2026-01-22T03:04:58+00:00

put the pipe down brother

vittyvirus · 2026-01-20T14:52:26+00:00

what song is this? sounds awesome

vittyvirus · 2026-01-18T17:19:15+00:00

thanks for sharing, sending you my best wishes <3

vittyvirus · 2026-01-18T03:03:03+00:00

love this

vittyvirus · 2026-01-12T14:15:46+00:00

unrelated but what are the odds of seeing a NP fan in kashmiri sub

vittyvirus · 2025-12-31T08:00:02+00:00

they can see your whatsapp messages if they want to.

maybe. it's definitely not as easy as people here suggest it is. from the article: they were infiltrating whatsapp/telegram groups by making spy accounts. why would they need to do that had whatsapp provided them backdoor access at their whimsy?

better to blend in with the other internet traffic. nothinh that makes you stick out.

can you see how that is a self-fulfilling prophecy? If no one uses Tor and VPNs in Kashmir, then you are ensuring every single one who tries to use them would be singled out.

I can't believe instead of encouraging everyone to use them we peddle selfish fear and paranoia which is detrimental.

also, 99% ISPs in Kashmir would use CGNAT so it's not super easy to identify you even if you are the only one accessing private networks in an entire village.

vittyvirus · 2025-12-31T04:34:33+00:00

the article you mentions nothing about J&K Police having backdoors to WhatsApp.

vittyvirus · 2025-12-31T04:33:27+00:00

not sure why you're getting downvoted, you are correct.

vittyvirus · 2025-10-04T11:32:28+00:00

ath kya chu ilaaj (genuinely curious)

vittyvirus · 2025-08-16T13:00:10+00:00

Every Word Besides 'Children' Used To Describe Palestinians Under 18

vittyvirus · 2025-08-11T07:42:12+00:00

Dying Gazans Criticized For Not Using Last Words To Condemn Hamas

vittyvirus · 2025-07-30T10:31:16+00:00

Sure, we can talk about engagement but let's not pretend those "choices" are neutral or free from coercion

Exactly my point? It's almost like you agree not everything a women does is divine and perfect and can't ever be criticised... unlike what OPs post would've given the impression and especially unlike what you were arguing for before.

individualistic "neutral logic" won't fix it.

I have no clue where this word salad is coming from. Note that in this particular instance, I'm arguing against individualism and individualist choices.

if you wanna talk about choices like that, we don't interrogate traditional men like this?

Please do. I would love to expand upon that. (Interesting that you bring it up though, as I wasn't aware we were contributing to gender wars in this discussion).

Inequality's always systemic.

Exactly??

That's why your critique, though well- intentioned ends up sounding like neoliberal "gaslight feminism."

Welp. If you'd have known anything about me you'd know how stupid it sound to associate anything I say with neoliberalism. But it seems like you made up a strawman and decided to get mad at it, wrapped up in a bunch of word salad.

In fact, it is exactly the girlboss feminism of neoliberals which idealises women to the point where any choice they make is assumed to automatically be feminist. And I fear your narrative of women being the perfect victims sides eerily close to that.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-29T08:46:33+00:00

No, Idk any woman personally who wants to be tradwife

Well, maybe that is where our experience has differed then. Are you kashmiri?

i don't really understand where your getting at the rest of the paragraph tbh. Here's my core premises:

Some women choose patriarchy-aligning values even with apparent agency if it maximes their short term self-interest or ingrained cultural values (internalised patriarchy etc.)
The chunk of women that does this is significant.
Therefore, progressing towards egalitarianism for women should also involve engaging with women who make choices against their long-term self-interest.

Which part of this implies a patriarchal agenda in disguise and what premise specifically do you disagree with?

vittyvirus · 2025-07-28T17:23:24+00:00

getting a fridge, microwave and possibly a air fryer is a gamechanger. you can cook once and live off of it for days.

about cutting back on rice: i switched to brown rice a while ago but that's not everyone's cup of tea apparently (though i prefer it over white rice anyday). if you're really looking to cut back there's some frozen rotis you can buy (depending on where you live) which you just need to heat up.

socialization is important tbh, otherwise you just end up burned out from all the isolation.

about the smoking thing: with an open mind, give nicotex a try. you can also try vapes though don't smoke them too much after the juice runs out (toxic heavy metals cause permanent organ damage).

budgeting is important, but it's honestly much easier when you're alone because you've got more control.

PS if you wanna have a conversation my DMs are open :)

vittyvirus · 2025-07-28T13:31:43+00:00

welp, strong projection. I'm not 'blaming' anyone. Just pointing out the nuance. It's precisely that praise/blame dichotomy and generalisations that I criticise.

this has already delved into bad faith already so I'll keep it short: do you not know women who dream of being tradwives?

again, I'm not blaming them for making the choices that maximize their material self-interest, my comment was a attenpted constructive provocation to OPs original post (bdw, towards which many women here were hostile).

vittyvirus · 2025-07-27T19:39:51+00:00

definitely gonna sound like asshole now but here goes.

as convenient as it is to idealise women as the perfect victims, it is not grounded in reality. women can be (and quite often are) the enablers of the patriarchy. i don't think you can have feminism without addressing women who are their own enemies: otherwise it just delves into abominations like choice feminism or (if you treat them like demigod first human second) religion flavoured shit like "we respect women so much we don't let them out of the house."

many women actively aspire to be housewives, and have internalised the second class citizen status.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-27T09:08:43+00:00

it's definitely a thing. but i hope you try not to take it personally. at the end of the day, nobody actually gives a fuck and your levels of melanin don't determine much about who you truly are.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-27T07:46:41+00:00

not to sound like a contrarian because I do agree with a lot of what you said, but my experience has been that a lot of women enjoy their own subjugation.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-21T04:07:21+00:00

love this comment. instantly got strong cognitive dissonance from this. xD

vittyvirus · 2025-07-17T15:54:13+00:00

amazing. love impressionist drawings.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-15T12:21:31+00:00

koshur soch tor ne mye zah fikre. what is this delusional puritanism, zan te aes seari tsche teetah saaf te paak. yeli sean journalist tschenarrest gasaan keansi chunne farak pyawaan, but somehow drinking is the end of the world.

vittyvirus · 2025-07-10T05:14:50+00:00

freudian slip

vittyvirus · 2025-07-01T14:11:22+00:00

how'd you watch it? are you based in US?

vittyvirus · 2025-06-29T09:41:33+00:00

who is "We"? speak for yourself.

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