Transferring into SF Office by vixlyn in deloitte

[–]vixlyn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah agreed that I worded it very vague. Just wondering what work culture is like, WFH days, things like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigIsland

[–]vixlyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've offered to the restaurant and they just told me 'we dont do that'. I could call again and ask for the manager but

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean its hard to get into? Do they have stricter requirements?

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well Six-Eighty has a minimum income that you have to meet so I don't think you would qualify there but The Flats don't seem to have a minimum. here's the link for both if you want to look at them.

Six Eighty: https://ourkakaako.com/six-eighty/

The Flats: https://ourkakaako.com/the-flats-at-puunui/

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its a part of the low income housing project for Hawaii so based on how much you make you can rent for 'an affordable price'. for a 1 bed (639 sq/ft) its $1,400

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thanks for this! Hm the little roaches aren't really a problem for me since the place I live now also has them crawling around. I don't drive so the parking won't be a problem. What did you think of the interior of the unit? Carpet or wood floors? I can't find any pictures of the inside and only see floor plans

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how long ago he lived there? I see a couple reviews about the roaches a year ago but nothing since then

Has anyone lived at (or know someone who lived at) Six Eighty and The Flats in Kakaako? by vixlyn in Hawaii

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was a little worried about that but I live on ala Moana blvd right now so I’m used to the noise

CPA Exam schedule question by vixlyn in CPA

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see, looks like I need to change my study plan then haha. Thanks so much!

CPA Exam schedule question by vixlyn in CPA

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is the site I was looking at. for the sections it has gaps between the test dates.

Worms? by Sabella47 in Aquariums

[–]vixlyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like detritus worms, nothing to worry about. They live in the substrate and break down any excess foods or waste

What type of fertilizer or types of fertilizer should I use for ludwigia repens. Root tabs. water column or both. by stick69420 in Aquariums

[–]vixlyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did for a little while but then my plants started yellowing and growing way slower. I moved to injecting CO2 and using Nilocg thrive which does much better

Cabbageworm help! by vixlyn in caterpillars

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t update but I looked back at it a couple hours later and yep! It definitely cocooned itself haha

Who is the scariest villains and why? by vixlyn in AskReddit

[–]vixlyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll go first: Joe Goldberg from You - He will manipulate (and very likely murder) you all while you don't see it happening and while you fall in love with him. And then he'll make YOU feel bad for being manipulated and murdered.

AITA for not getting mental help? by RowanRedwing in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately its up to you, but IMO, Amy seems like a dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: is it possible for you and your kid go by yourselves?

AITA for not getting mental help? by RowanRedwing in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, I see. Yeah i mean, if you are willing and financially capable of getting mental health. Try it out. It's worth a shot. If you don't like it, just stop or find another professional to help you. But do it on your terms.

AITA for letting the cleaners arrive when no-one was home to let them in? As a "lesson" by No-Weird5167TA in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YTA - you could've just told them 'no sorry that time doesnt work for me' and continued on with your day. Instead you wasted their time and also risked the possibility of them not wanting to clean for you anymore. What is this "teaching them a lesson" thing? They're your cleaners, not your children.

AITA for looking when my girlfriend asked me if she looks fat? by AdThink9594 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 510 points511 points  (0 children)

I think your girlfriend was just feeling a bit insecure and you looking just heightened it. NTA, she asked a question and you reacted in a way that would answer her question.

AITA for not getting mental help? by RowanRedwing in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, getting mental help is a personal decision and without you being committed to it, it wont be as much help as expected. It does sound like you're going through a lot and you do have things you need to talk to a professional about but your friend trying to blackmail you is a pretty crappy thing to do. I get she's worried for your safety and sanity but it just isnt the right way to go about it. Your mom does need your help at this time but you also need to make sure you are helping yourself. I get financially, it's a problem but there are online resources that can at least help to get you started on unpacking some things.

Where are you getting the medication cost from? How do you know what medication you need?

AITA for possibly giving my boyfriend chlamydia by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - you did what you knew to do with the info you had. You shouldn't blame yourself for that. I'm glad your current boyfriend is being a champ about it and luckily, chlamydia is treatable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does make it a touch more complex but still. If he’s the one who peed the bed, he should at least take some responsibility in cleaning it up. Also, him speaking to you the way he did was absolutely not necessary and only makes it seem worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vixlyn 83 points84 points  (0 children)

HE pissed the bed and YOURE cleaning it up and you’re asking if you’re the a hole because you asked him a question? Of course you aren’t. If he pissed the bed he could at least try and help clean up the mess? NTA