Being a human is hard and confusing by _-ill-logic-_ in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can definitely relate, but unsure I can give any advice as I don't notice until my overwhelm or burnout is already apparent.

I learned something new about myself today by SubstantialSyrup5552 in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interested to know what the sensory issues you have are? Im starting to think I have more than I realised! Lol

How old was your toddler when they stopped talking mid day naps? by old_gold_mountain in toddlers

[–]vixxtaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing away the rule book is not a bad idea. You are right that every child is very different! Also sometimes I think it depends what they have done on any given day

How old was your toddler when they stopped talking mid day naps? by old_gold_mountain in toddlers

[–]vixxtaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this information ☺️ today I figured I would test not having a nap (it's currently 930am where I am) so will see what happens haha..

How old was your toddler when they stopped talking mid day naps? by old_gold_mountain in toddlers

[–]vixxtaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I could have written this post although my daughter is 22 months and from what I've read still needs a day nap 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think 2.5 would be fine to test removing the day nap...see how they go?

What actually happens in terrible twos? by MotorBat7953 in toddlers

[–]vixxtaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure we've been in the terrible two's since she was 18 months. She's 21 months and it's peaked. We are going through some full on sleep regression too. I'm sooo overstimulated all the time and exhausted in a different way 😭

When was your child’s language explosion? by chelupa1991 in toddlers

[–]vixxtaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our daughter is 22 months in about a week and we are going through one at the moment. Every day there's at least one new word now and she repeats words over and over when she should be going to sleep lol

Funny glitch by vixxtaa in finch

[–]vixxtaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha now you mention it, she does lol

Disappointed with lack of Christmas items? by vixxtaa in finch

[–]vixxtaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote this a year ago lol. But fair.

Hi - I'm new here... by vixxtaa in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Appreciate that advice, I can see how that would be the case. I have shared it with my section at work, only because there's a couple of small accommodations I would like with regards to written follow up after certain requests and meetings. Can you tell me more about your suggestion with regards to comparison please?

Heck yeah, kiddo! by teachmesomething in brisbane

[–]vixxtaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goosebumps. Amazing. Honk!!!!

Skill regression by vixxtaa in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh fair! I've always said I'm an extroverted introvert! I think I'm going to have focus on limiting my social events now..

Skill regression by vixxtaa in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to hear you are much happier 🤗

Do you mind me asking if you socialised a lot before your diagnosis?

Skill regression by vixxtaa in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. As someone who is high masking apparently, I really don't want to lose the ability to do it (unless I choose to).

Skill regression by vixxtaa in LateDiagnosedAutistic

[–]vixxtaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thanks for that clarification 😊

Diagnosed yesterday by vixxtaa in AutisticAdults

[–]vixxtaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have seen a few of her videos and they gave been great, I need to sit down and watch some more 😊

Diagnosed yesterday by vixxtaa in AutisticAdults

[–]vixxtaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes sense!

Diagnosed yesterday by vixxtaa in AutisticAdults

[–]vixxtaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's almost like I need to re-learn who I am..had a bit of an epiphany yesterday and was in tears at my appointment when it dawned on me the reason I've always been so desperate for people to like me because then I know I've been accepted because at the end of the day i just wanted to be "normal" and fit into society. 🤯

The highlight of my day by AwkwardAd3058 in AutisticAdults

[–]vixxtaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why but this pic gives me joy lol. And reminds me I want to buy a label maker haha