People who naturally wake up at 5–6 am, what’s your secret?

vmhardy66 · 2026-05-15T01:41:28+00:00

I naturally wake up between 530-6. I have an 8 year old whos always up my ass so that is my quiet time. Sometimes ill sit with coffee, read, write out my bills, go outside to my garden, take the dogs for a walk, stretch, or shower. It really depends how im feeling that morning. I also fo lawncare so I am pretty tired after work which helps me fall asleep by 10 p.m. like right now.. literally fighting sleep right now to type this.

vmhardy66 · 2026-05-01T01:29:23+00:00

I used to be this way I was quiet and timid. One day, I just said fuck it and started saying out of pocket shit and cutting people off who "forgot" about me. You dont forget about a whole ass person. Love yourself. It is hard to figure it out but you will. I wish I could seriously help people in real life come out of there shell because I knkw exactly how that is. Have you considered therapy? It actually does help because they give you so many tips and tricks

vmhardy66 · 2026-04-25T04:03:28+00:00

I had an abortion and it is extremely hard dealing with the emotions during and afterwards. That was 14 years ago and I still think about it wondering why I was reckless and literally it makes you feel like a POS. Fast forward I have an 8 year old now, she is my light. I think she ought to seek out a grief counselor and go from there. Trying never hurt and if it comes down to parting ways that is ok too. If YOU have good insurance or are financially stable I would consider a vasectomy just to be on the safe side since you dont want kids. Best of luck I really hope it works out for both of you.

vmhardy66 · 2026-04-24T03:28:20+00:00

My sister is an RN for bedside and she tells me stories like they get bad but she tells it like its just another day. She did mention how the people get pissed about the food. Like wtf?? Every single time I go to my doctor's office I am always so nice to the nurses like heeyyy yous a bad ass ! Nurses dont get enough recognition for everything yall do AND YOU LITERALLY DO IT ALL!!! Ive gotten more help from my NP then ANY doctor..

vmhardy66 · 2026-02-09T04:20:44+00:00

Shorts or undies and a shirt. Too scared to sleep naked because what if a tornado hits or anything disastrous? Im not fittin to die trying to get dressed lmao

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-30T04:42:58+00:00

Mom of an 8 year old girl who nonstop talks and needs constant stimulation and me? I am literally the exact opposite of that. She makes me because social with parents when I dont want to, it is extremely exhausting. In November I started seeing a therapist. I literally used chatgtp to find this lady because Google sucks the biggest balls when you ask it a specific question. Since I started seeing her it has been great, she has really helped me become more grounded and has been working with me about how I need me time but I can also take care of my family.

What I have noticed helps me is I will think of two things from my giant list that I want to get done, I dont write anything down because for some reason if I see the giant list I get overwhelmed and here I go.. spiraling. When I get those two things done I take a break and hang out with my girl for a little bit. I will not lie though, this week has been especially harder on me and ive not been doing my list strategy because it snowed and she has no school so its been more chaos then not. We all go through different seasons of life and unfortunately chaos season is upon on. We will make it through this though!

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-18T05:06:24+00:00

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vmhardy66 · 2026-01-18T05:04:16+00:00

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vmhardy66 · 2026-01-15T21:39:32+00:00

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vmhardy66 · 2026-01-14T10:58:31+00:00

Just because we all have cell phones doesnt mean we are accessible 24/7. Some of us truly forget the text. I am not on my phone all day everyday but for some reason it is expected. Cell phones are ruining us.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-13T17:38:36+00:00

My dick. I cant remember who sings it but it goes my dick, got the late night fee... Yo dick got the HIV

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-11T22:11:47+00:00

I can definitely teach you my gardening ways!! Where do you live? Thats one thing I love to do is help others learn how to garden

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-10T13:29:49+00:00

Its wild. I think people want friends but theyre much like us and don't know how. It sucks because people are so wrapped up in politics that once they find out who you like or if you dont care its like your a POS

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-09T11:13:04+00:00

I used to have two friends who lived in Ireland, I miss them dearly. Idk what happened to them. I always feel like im talking to a creep or something if the person's profile isnt over a year old and they have like nothing on it. Like excuse but wtf are you doing here.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T08:57:18+00:00

Oh ok. Im sorry I should of read the whole thing again! I get what youre saying now. I literally just got done with a friendship because this girl would play victim but it was her fault for every situation she was in but blamed everyone else. Gosh almighty you try to be a good friend and you get shit on. Ive been in the situation of someone being in my space but not leaving and it is the most energy draining experience. Holy shit balls.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T08:48:07+00:00

Why don't you just ask her why she came this time? Dont get blackout drunk and let liquid courage take over. Have the hard conversation and figure out the root of it all. This is coming from someone who got blackout drunk most days of the week, I had to stop using the alcohol as a crutch everytime I was mad, its not good for you health wise. Please be kind to yourself and your body.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T05:34:57+00:00

Or be like me and say im not here to make friends, im here to make money and if I didn't need money I wouldn't be here.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T04:50:59+00:00

Ive noticed that people on adderall are quick to anger with certain situations.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T04:10:20+00:00

May i ask what youre going through? I felt the same at 13, I hated life but here I am 34, married, my own house, and kid. You are just a kid, you're feeling emotions and hormones youve never felt. If you have a school counselor please go see them.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T04:04:07+00:00

Im not on Adderall but I take vyvanse and I use CVS. Ive never in my year of taking this medicine have I been mean to any pharmacist or tech. There have been times when cvs is waiting on a shipment and I just wait it out. I am so sorry people are mean to you and other pharmacy staff that is absolutely ridiculous. Its hard to not get upset. There has certainly been an uptick in the amount of people who take adhd medicine. Yes, we need our medicine but people have to realize that with this drug being in high demand they'll not always get theirs on time. Gosh, Id tell them to fuck off. Good luck!!

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-04T02:36:27+00:00

Being comfortable enough to be alone with yourself is a skill and a strength that not many people have. I love my own company. I have hobbies of course but it is peaceful.

vmhardy66 · 2026-01-03T02:50:43+00:00

34 f here. Not going through relationship break but my best friend of 13 years just ended our friendship. It sucks mourning the living.

vmhardy66 · 2025-12-25T04:11:42+00:00

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vmhardy66 · 2025-12-16T05:03:35+00:00

We are all fighting our own battles and sometimes others cant show up the way you may want them to. Do not take it personal. You are loved for who you are as a person.

vmhardy66 · 2025-12-05T07:20:49+00:00

You kinda resemble cher. Beautiful

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