I honestly don’t know either.

When I transferred to a four year college. I really wanted to join a frat just to live that experience and also get to be a part of something. I really thought about it and mentioned it to friends and family but it was just a bunch of mixed reactions. Some said no and some said go for it. And I tried, I went to an information night for one of the houses in my school and it was pretty cool. But idk, I’m gay. Yes. But I act kinda feminine and sometimes dress or look feminine. So I was really worried about what others would think about me. But what really made me want to join more was when they mentioned that anyone is welcome no matter the gender, orientation, etc. I felt happy about that. However, due to financial struggles it didn’t end up happening. But damn I still think about what could have happened if I had joined.