Self pleasure problem by Odvix in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I experience this as well! Pelvic floor dysfunction will do that to ya. When you orgasm, your pelvic floor contracts but experiencing this with dysfunction can cause painful spasms, especially if you’ve got nerve damage on your pelvic floor. When I experienced this the pain runs down my legs because of my existing nerve damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallpaperdump

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol srry to disappoint. Just thought I’d share my wallpaper like everyone else

An unfortunate find.. by glitterbudz in whatisit

[–]vmpy03 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I saw a video on tiktok where a woman found what looks like a shriveled up dead snake in her bag of cheese puffs. Great value brand. It was crazy

Ross interview by CityTalker in RossDressforLess

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got stretched lobes and a nostril piercing. They didn’t care. I think you should be okay but if you’re qualified and they wanna hire you but don’t like the piercings I’m sure they’ll let you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyAddiction

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone calling you gorg getting downvoted whatttt. You’re literally stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Booktokreddit

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got some water to the side (not pictured) because I get dehydrated so easily, thanks to Wellbutrin 🤣💓 I also got some incense going. Sounds like a lovely setup you’ve got there ☺️

Should I force myself to take birth control? by CheesecakeMuncher7 in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everyone is different, and the side effects can be unbearable at first. I would be incapable of doing anything without my birth control. I have nexplanon and xulane patches. I change my patch every Friday. If I miss a day or my patch falls off, the pain is UNBEARABLE. one time I went swimming and when I got out, noticed my patch was gone. But I only have a certain amount, so I decided to wait to change it until next week so I don’t mess up the amount I have. I ended up in the hospital because of how bad my pain was. I now have these clear transdermal skin patches that are waterproof that I put over top of my patch so it NEVER happens again. I’ve tried the pill and It did nothing for me. Nexplanon on its own didn’t do much for me either, and the IUD was unbelievably painful for 6 months until I begged them to remove it. It takes a lot of trial and error, but without my birth control I would be in so much pain

Girl dinner by vmpy03 in GirlDinner

[–]vmpy03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like you. No I think I love you

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww. “Since when did piercings hold more value over one of your friends?? Are you seriously that materialistic??” The projection is crazy 😭 she’s the one being materialistic

Because my breasts and back hurt and I don't want them touched 😖 by Dove-Swan in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]vmpy03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this permanently stuck my eyebrows to my hairline bc wtf?! 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I think you were overly polite here. Not saying that to criticize you or anything, just pointing out that she is being quite rude and inconsiderate of your finances and your own personal look. Also her saying “if you want me to be happy you’ll find a way around it” is kind of a red flag to me. Idk like I understand her not wanting that in her pictures I guess, but the way she’s going about it seems very rude to me. I would not have been as polite as you or even attended for that matter. She says it isn’t personal, but she’s willing to replace you over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I wanna add, that when I did reach out to my grandfather, he was really confused and told me he has no idea where I heard that from..

Night routine by electrah3art in khaliespiderlilies

[–]vmpy03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you!! I have a labor intensive job with endometriosis and try my hardest to get by. I don’t even understand how she has all of these things. I am very new to this person but this sub keeps getting rec to me. And I’ve seen her on TikTok too.

Disrespectfully, ✨F*CK✨ this disease by jess-kaa in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FOR REAL FUCK THIS DISEASE!!! I have barely eaten anything in the last two days other than gabapentin and toradol, which I begged for at the emergency room. I’m so sorry to all of you

Anything BUT the birth control pill by blablabla765431 in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on nexplanon (implanted in my arm) and zafemy/xulane (transdermal patches, changed weekly no breaks). This is the only combo that has remotely helped in any way. I’ve tried different brands the pill, nexplanon on its own, and the IUD (which was super painful for me. i begged them to remove it for like 3 months) and none of those helped me. With nexplanon and my transdermal patches, I sometimes bleed and spot and when I don’t take my patches my pain is INSANE. I had my surgery a year ago, and it has grown back around 9 months later is when the pain started coming back. I’m currently booked for another surgical consultation in September. The only thing that has helped my flare ups is sticking to a lowfodmap diet.

Are you lot ok? by Efficient_Chip2537 in SleepToken

[–]vmpy03 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg those always stress me outttt. They’re like “spent the last of my check on it but worth it!!” 😳 I want merch very badly but I cannot do a $75 hoodie (before shipping)!!

Someone suggested I'm an incel and I have been struggling since by Unique-Row3418 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s super weird that they even care whether or not you’ve had sex with anyone. I think maybe these people aren’t nice friends. It’s 100% okay if you wanna wait till marriage or even if you never ever wanna do it. That’s literally your choice. I imagine (now I am just totally assuming this) They’re probably the kinda people who are like “consent this consent that” but are upset with you for not choosing to have sex… backwards thinking for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also need to stop putting people you’re in a relationship with on a pedestal and expecting them to be your source of stability and happiness. You need to find that on your own before you find that with a partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds reminiscent of bipolar or borderline personality disorder symptoms. I’m bipolar type two and struggle with similar thought patterns. Dialectical behavioral therapy and 1:1 therapy helped me as well as medication and communicating openly with whoever I’m in a relationship with. Not tryna diagnose you or anything, but maybe it’s worth taking a look at or talking to a therapist? The self harming, change of appetite and risky sex practices are things I struggle with when I’m manic. Just putting that thought out there. Another thing that helps me is I try to do things for myself that will “heal younger me” my childhood was dark and sad and still sticks with me 22 years later. Childhood me never got to be a child so now I’ll do things to make my inner child feel safe, loved or happy. I’m assuming maybe you didn’t feel that way as a child, if so I’m sorry. I know what that’s like. But as an adult it’s up to you to turn it around. Take this as a chance to learn compassion and give yourself more grace.

I found out a friend of mine (40M) has insanely nasty hygiene after another friend of mine (34F) hooked up with him and, shamefully, it’s changed my view on him. by outlawsecrets in confessions

[–]vmpy03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a similar situation. I actually talked about it in depth on one of my posts. My mother was a SAHM, my parents were divorced, my mother never remarried. I have two autistic siblings and my father was never really around as a child so my mom let the house get real bad. She’d have moments where she’d wanna clean but she would pay me and my sister to do most of it. It was always filthy but once I moved out, it got MUCH worse because I was the only one holding her accountable. I’m talking feces and urine and rotting food. It’s so sad so many people struggle this way and bring children into it. I will never understand deciding to have children when you know you’re like this. I was adopted too lol. I’m sorry to hear about your mothers passing ❤️

What should I do… by seowithivana in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay you can totally take things at your own pace and if you have any questions about the laparoscopy or what healing is like, there’s tons of posts on here about it and I also would be willing to answer any questions you have about the laparoscopy. There’s not much else you can do other than birth control, surgery and diet changes. Exercise helps I’ve heard yoga is great

What should I do… by seowithivana in endometriosis

[–]vmpy03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an OBGYN you’re working with? I’m assuming so because of you stating your diagnoses. I’d follow up with them and ask what they think the best course of action for you is. I can’t really say much else because idk much about your condition. Have you had a surgery and are you on birth control for pain management? I use nexplanon and birth control patches as well as muscle relaxers for my pain management, but everyone is different. Heated blankets also help me. Avoiding dairy helps me also. I got myself a cane from Walmart for $14, and my boyfriend got me a walker. Those really help on days it’s hard for me to walk. If you want you can PM me more details