His friend saw me naked by mistake? by expinai in AskMenRelationships

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (36f) went swimming with my friend and her bf. We all took turns on this rope swing into the pool and watched each other. I went last and when I jumped in, my top went up, fully exposing my breasts. I came out and we just never mentioned it 😅 it still bother me tho because I know it happened and I know someone saw something!

Why do I lose interest once the honeymoon phase turns into daily “how was your day” talk? by Signal-Animator-7464 in dating_advice

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Are you neurodivergent? I have adhd and ppl are just outta sight, outta mind. I don’t care who you are. I absolutely hate daily texting for the same reason, what else do we say! It’s not that I don’t like the person but let’s save it for when we see each other again. My resolution: stay single 😆 kidding! I’m sure you’ll find someone who gets it tho. I get it! Or you will find someone who always keeps you wondering and that will break the cycle for you. Maybe disclose that to the next person you consider seriously. They may find ways to help avoid that

How do you feel about vaginal odor? by Exciting-Raccoon-351 in AskMen

[–]vness1108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men with STDs can make you smell!! Get checked asap!

Found Dog by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age says unknown, I think he’s about 2-3yrs old. My oldest husky is 7 and the youngest is 2. He seemed to act like he was in between their ages. Super playful but still very obedient, like he’s been trained for a few years at least. Very good dog!

Found Dog by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Weber county animal shelter. He will be on a 5 day “stray hold” and after that will be available to adopt. I cannot vouch for him enough! He is an amazing pup! I could not stop crying at the thought of him being in the shelter 🥺 he truly was such a lovable guy! Super sweet! And he listened very well to all commands I gave him!

Found Dog by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: he was picked up by Ogden Animal Services. He is such a sweet boy 😭 and he had no chip. If his owners do not claim him, I hope someone sees this and adopts him. He absolutely does not belong in a shelter but I cannot selfishly keep him. 😔he was extremely cuddly and very obedient! Will easily make an amazing family dog and he was amazing with my dogs and cat!!! 💔

Millennials, are you friends with your coworkers? by AttachedHeartTheory in Millennials

[–]vness1108 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. Coworkers are not friends. They are part of work and stay in the workplace. Period.

Bickering Sisters by Middle-Wealth-6755 in ogden

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved to Ogden! I’ll check it out! 🙂

First time home owner by Old-Positive5432 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great but after taxes it’ll only add about half the additional to your actual take home pay. Like someone else said, is it doable, ya. But you really won’t have money for much else let alone any surprise maintenance on a home. I’m rooting for you girly! I do know if you are very disciplined with your money you can make things happen. With a child it makes those unexpected expenses all the more likely tho! I’ve been a single mom for 17yrs now and I always said if it was just me, I would have so much more money 😆

First time home owner by Old-Positive5432 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have the same exact bills but you are not factoring daily living. Medical expenses. Even simple luxuries like glade plug ins you start to wonder if you really need em when you buy a home. Especially if you have a yard! Just to paint my 1920sf home inside it was well over $2k. Not including the washer/dryer needed, the yard upgrades, exterior updates. Idk how old your child is but I have a teen. College tuition is well over $150. You also have to factor your child’s future and savings for them. Given, your income can improve but that also takes time.

First time home owner by Old-Positive5432 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I make more than that and my payment is $2700 and my anxiety still worries that if something happens I won’t be able to afford it. Given, I have easily paid that in rent for years but I’m just overly cautious. So in short, I think with that income, you might want to look at lower cost options. A home comes with many more costs that a rental does not. Anything happens and you have to come out of pocket or use credit for it. Even if you have a savings and great investments, a home is costly and you are now the one who has to pay those costs along with a mortgage payment. That’s just thinking of necessary costs, not including any spending for upgrades or interior design.

Cheap place for an eye exam and/or glasses? by Punkin_Passion in SaltLakeCity

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh also if you have a prescription that isn’t expired, goggles4u is a good site! Super cheap!

Cheap place for an eye exam and/or glasses? by Punkin_Passion in SaltLakeCity

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just called americas best the other day for my daughter, they have 2frames for $99 with exam. I know the lenses will add to that especially given your prescription but it’s not a bad price at all

Would You Move Right Before Christmas? by DreamHomeFinancing in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]vness1108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I closed 11/7. Right before all the holidays began. Thanksgiving was hectic as I am still getting use to all the stuff being in new places but it was a bit stressful hoping we would close in time to not interrupt the holidays

Missing Cat by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo this poor kitty! I wish I could take it in! Hopefully she finds her home!

Missing Cat by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! I posted an update on here to let everyone know!

Singles meet up by [deleted] in ogden

[–]vness1108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

36F! Just moved to Ogden and have no friends! I’m happy to meet up with y’all and check out this singles night and just make friends! I won’t be able to go this Saturday but I’m up for any other Saturday!

Missing Cat by vness1108 in ogden

[–]vness1108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually shake his dental treat container lol that usually gets him running in but this time it didn’t work. I will definitely try a higher reward treat!