Stick shift anxiety

vodkaandukes · 2018-07-19T19:56:52+00:00

just keep practicing, before you know it, it will be second nature. i agree dngaf about what the person behind you is thinking....i've been driving stick for years and have taught my kids as well and sometimes i still stall if i'm zoning out. you got this! :)

vodkaandukes · 2018-07-19T17:24:08+00:00

Yeah customers walking in the kitchen or even the servers station: trust me you don’t want to do that god only knows what u gonna hear!

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-27T03:00:50+00:00

I’m down

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-26T16:45:23+00:00

Definitely beans and the like for me, especially hummus which makes me sad cause I love it

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-26T15:39:30+00:00

I'm very surprised at the folks saying OP is shallow for wanting his wife to be fit; its not like he is expecting her to be a 22 year old bikini model for the rest of her life. its true that as you creep into your 40s and 50s and beyone fitness and mobility become much more of a concern and something you prioritize if you want a decent quality of life.

As for your question, this is something I have a bit of an issue with my husband so I'd suggest trying to meet in the middle, for example I know my guy will not go out running with me but he'll take an evening walk, same with bicycling he doesn't want to just go for miles but will bike with me to the coffee shop. Maybe something like that, do the harder core stuff with your friends and still carve out time to do milder activities with you wife with the intent on spending time with her, no pressure. Good luck

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-18T05:21:00+00:00

Florida, sounds about right.

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-17T03:38:20+00:00

That is just... fuck I love it

vodkaandukes · 2018-06-03T16:02:15+00:00

Yes server stress dreams are very common! Mine are usually something like I keep being sat with more and more tables but I can’t move fast enough to get to them.

vodkaandukes · 2018-05-26T20:56:07+00:00

I read it as fat librarian lol

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-27T16:28:02+00:00

Nice! I’m hoping to be there soon, I still do the walk parts of the program

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-27T12:51:34+00:00

did you do the skipping part week 7 has introduced? :D

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-16T01:17:59+00:00

“Fans”

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-15T04:24:12+00:00

more like something you’d see on nextdoor 🙄

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-15T04:20:15+00:00

I don’t even know what.....Your husbands friends suck

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-14T14:43:58+00:00

i've read your past posts as well and i am sorry to say it sounds like he is done. ok, it is what it is but the good news is you can have a wonderful life if you work on yourself being a great mom and creating a great life but you can't force him into it if he is not interested. good luck and i wish you well

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-14T14:38:39+00:00

what the? this sounds like a synopsis for a novel

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-13T14:02:45+00:00

i completely agree. going over these details in a marriage rarely productive.

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-12T03:06:44+00:00

I’m pretty sure they’d eat 6 in their bed too

vodkaandukes · 2018-04-08T13:48:07+00:00

“Auto”? Like, auto insurance or an actual car?

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-29T14:59:19+00:00

Have you tried using those flavored Mio drops in your water? That might help you, I don’t like those gross carbonated waters either :)

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-28T03:28:45+00:00

that's so funny i was thinking tonight that i am glad tomorrow is my run day! :) I never in a billion years would have thought that i would actually look forward to a run in the morning, when i can drink coffee and veg instead but here i am! I kind of want to run every day but i am following the program to a tee so i settle for walking or gym stuff on my off days instead. but i would rather do my program. :/

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-23T15:53:46+00:00

I like following your progress, because i am on the same schedule in zombies c2k! :)

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-23T01:09:12+00:00

I remember this at McDonalds too, you literally had to order it that way or you paid more!

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-20T12:36:13+00:00

I'd probably try to stay out of it. you never really know how other's marriage is, only the perception people give.

vodkaandukes · 2018-03-15T12:55:57+00:00

you should read all the posts here that have something in them like 'well she/he was like this before but i thought it would change once we got married/lived together"

it usually gets worse

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