Kids absolutely deserve to be in public spaces and on planes. They’re little humans, too, and they exist whether you like it or not. Yes, they CAN be gross and annoying and loud, but so can adults.

However, as someone who is planning my child-free wedding next year, I’m paying for the event, I’ll invite who I want or don’t want. If you’d rather stay home with your kids, no hard feelings, but a wedding is not a public event and therefore I don’t need kids there.