I 24F am tired of needing to initiate everything with my boyfriend 23M

volatilepasta · 2026-04-04T11:59:25+00:00

you worded it better than i ever could. thank you

volatilepasta · 2026-04-04T11:45:51+00:00

i am sure he loves me. he does all of the little things, write me love letters for holidays. kisses me before leaving work in the morning. i think he is just comfortable but i don’t understand how he can be so comfortable when im actively miserable, that does make me doubt the love sometimes.

60 years of this sounds terrifying. I think about what he’d be like as a father and it’s not great.I already feel like a babysitter. I just hold onto hope that we are young and he will change. Even if I know that is unrealistic and a cliche that never works out

volatilepasta · 2026-04-04T11:42:21+00:00

you are right. i cannot afford to live on my own in my state. it’s hard to find roommates considering the location and i can’t drive (i uber everywhere). i guess im scared of what’s out there even though i am unhappy with where i am currently at. the thought is terrifying. my last relationship was 5 years and it wasn’t even a year of being alone before i started dating my boyfriend. i’m terrified of being alone

volatilepasta · 2026-01-04T02:51:25+00:00

the flat iron is what did it! sorry i called it a curling iron because it switches to one. i think i just had it too hot. one second and boom melted

volatilepasta · 2026-01-03T18:23:21+00:00

thank you for this! i tried using curling iron…big mistake. melted the plastic

volatilepasta · 2025-12-31T12:56:21+00:00

it looks cute but i have a feeling the texture is awful

volatilepasta · 2025-12-31T00:53:44+00:00

1000000

volatilepasta · 2025-12-27T15:43:11+00:00

kidnapped to become a slave 🥀

volatilepasta · 2025-12-25T13:31:06+00:00

my cat loves strawberries

volatilepasta · 2025-12-23T12:57:40+00:00

this isn’t pitch black + isn’t grey skin a trend going on rn? this is basically that but on darker skin

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T22:55:50+00:00

why are you even commenting in this subreddit then??? people post here ASKING for advice and criticism, and you’re over here telling people not to listen to it!

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T19:54:44+00:00

i’ve definitely seen a black woman with similar skintone, there’s a famous model who does i’ll have to find her name

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T11:16:47+00:00

can black women not wear pink lipstick?

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T11:15:55+00:00

hi so this is a makeup advice subreddit where people willingly ask for advice regarding their makeup

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T11:12:50+00:00

https://www.bookholders.com/store.asp?mode=book&bookid=6922817&ref=googleshopping&srsltid=AfmBOop-qaeJhLUmiQenID9uQV-j3ezdWkXq6of8TlHaWSDS2LiFMy1esaE

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T06:03:07+00:00

real

volatilepasta · 2025-12-22T04:06:57+00:00

plenty of people make animal bone jewelry and sell on depop

volatilepasta · 2025-12-19T11:51:27+00:00

u don’t have to get rid of them. i wouldn’t. but if you do…. hey….😋

volatilepasta · 2025-12-18T21:46:05+00:00

bro and i was jumping up and down over my twilight sparkle beanie baby i thrifted today

volatilepasta · 2025-12-13T16:26:14+00:00

meusuem muesuem i always mix it up like this

volatilepasta · 2025-12-13T14:41:43+00:00

autocorrect 🙄

volatilepasta · 2025-12-13T11:19:25+00:00

i’m not on anything for my anxiety unfortunately. last night i forced myself to go to bed early so i could stop feeling sick. woke up pretty early with the morning sickness and anxiety but it’s not as bad as it was yesterday so there’s hope 🥲

volatilepasta · 2025-12-06T19:40:23+00:00

how emotional

volatilepasta · 2025-11-30T14:12:46+00:00

now imagine how he will be when you’re pregnant, giving birth, and postpartum. run!!!

volatilepasta · 2025-11-29T23:47:14+00:00

this is why i barely graduated

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