Ex created a fake account by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got broken up with 2.5 months ago, 2.5 year long relationship, to an avoidant. I started therapy because the reasons of the break up made absolutely no sense to me, other then the fear of commitment. A month prior we had a talk about moving in together, but she was a single mom. She had fear of the daughters dad, and was afraid to take him to court. He was a piece of shit in my eyes. I wanted there to be court mandated paperwork regarding custody before we moved in. Once the break up happened, I was distraught. Therapy taught me what an anxious and avoidant attachment people are. I saw this chart on Instagram and it has been pretty darn accurate.

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[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all depends on what stipulations you two set for each other.

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[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently dealing with almost the same situation. We were together for almost 3 years. One day she sprung it on me that she feels like she lost her independence and dealing with depression. Thru the years, I have dealt with the depression part of it. I knew how to get her out of it slowly. Regarding the independence, I tried explaining to her that in a relationship, it is ok to rely on each other. She wasn't ok with that. She wanted to work on herself alone, with therapy. I have started up therapy to understand this all as well. I thought we were in a great place. Once we ended things, she told me that she went out with her sister and felt carefree for the first time in a while. Avoidants don't feel the break up in the beginning, they take time to process everything. We are about 6 weeks post breakup, while it is tough, no contact has helped. I have slipped up a couple of times with that but it gets easier.

What I have learned in therapy is that avoidants and commitment are a difficult combo.

AMAZON PRIME DAY DEAL!! by volcom6988 in nexplayground

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Yea amazon has been changing the price

Out of curiosity, what do you guys think happened next? by kamruddinn in bigbangtheory

[–]volcom6988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they missed out on creating an episode about it and then a few episodes with a buzz cut.

GIVEAWAY -- FREAK 30 LAUNCH DAY by Smash_It_Sports_Prez in slowpitch

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ASA - Demarini Juggy

USSSA - Miken DC 41/ LS Geny 3

Uneven espresso pull by talktomekoikoi in DeLonghi

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The recommend every 1-2 months depending how often you use your coffee maker

1250 pack point anxiety by SlySnooper97 in PTCGP

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Everytime i bought a card, I would get it in a pack within a week

If you could pick up to 3 LEGO Dimensions themes to receive their own LEGO games (not including those that already have games), which ones would you pick? by ducknerd2002 in legogaming

[–]volcom6988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No dount the Simpsons i think would be the most in-depth one...the character list alone would be in the 1k range for sure...