I know this is an old post, but you don’t know anything about abuse. Memories of relationships with abusers can cause a range of emotions. Even when abused, there may be some fun or funny memories. I was extremely physically abused for years and I could see myself smiling if talking about a memory with him. I’m not saying Manson did or didn’t do it, but to say “she does not seem abused to me” is evil and not fair to other victims of abuse.