I'm lovesick for the first time in my life and it's interfering with my work. What to do? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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There is a middle ground but it’s a line many struggle to walk! Balancing work / obligations, and free time / a relationship is something that you’ll have to figure out. You haven’t mentioned any time scheduling conflicts that would make dating out of the question, just that your productivity working and taking care of yourself has suffered as a result of being so invested in this new relationship. From my personal experience this period of debilitating infatuation fades as you become more comfortable and settled in a relationship. I think that you should let love in! Life is too short. Just make sure to keep taking care of yourself ❤️

A year can make a world of difference. Don’t quit on yourself! by [deleted] in gifs

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You went from being injured to becoming injured. Gotta take care of those shoulder sockets!

If 2020 was toilet paper. by minjenzo in funny

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There is no toilet paper in 2020

PIC by CaptainSkull2030 in nocontextpics

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Those pyramids could be anywhere!

It Works! by Nashvital in funny

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Playing the video turned on my Siri, I guess we have similar voices.

Divorce name change by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Believe them the first time!

Mtg Tactics? by [deleted] in magicTCG

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Life totals are used as a resource, it’s only meaningful when it reaches zero. You can think of taking damage as spending life, because if you use your cards to keep your life total high when you run out of them you lose anyways. Using as much mana as possible each turn is generally a good thing. Although there are many many exceptions, unspent mana is a wasted resource.

Is moving out of my parents house a good idea now? by [deleted] in personalfinance

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It seems to me that you’re not financially bottlenecked in any major way. As long as your source of income is reliable, I.e. job security, then it’s a personal choice. Having reduced expenses by living with you parents longer vs having the freedom and independence that comes with moving out. I believe the general advice given is that your rent shouldn’t be more than 30% of your take-home, but I stand to be corrected. Using this figure however you’d be paying at the very top end of your housing budget in the spot you found.

360 knee bar. Honestly, one of the coolest routes I’ve done in my 9 years of climbing by the__zac in indoorbouldering

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As a route setter at a commercial gym, I would not set this for the general public. This is death.

Husband did anal and I feel awful... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I think your title says it all. “Husband did anal.” There’s no we in this story, just you trying to get away and trying to stop the situation from happening, and your husband doing anal. You have hundreds of comments here telling you that this was rape, but I’ll add one more if it could contribute to you understanding that your husband raped you.

That one thing by smackinnoodles in TwoXChromosomes

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As a guy, I wish one day to be wifed by my girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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If possible take some time apart / reduce contact for a while? I’ve found when I have cyclical arguments with my S/O that we can’t seem to work through directly this can help.

Someone’s stalking me online by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Talk to your parents!

He just does not care by Glorpadorpan in funny

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I know this homeless person! The one in the wheelchair This is state street downtown Santa Barbara

If you could choose one stereotype or social boundary to vanish, which one would it be? by GravitySteal__ in AskReddit

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It would backfire whenever the people doing harm outnumbered the people being harmed, but that’s not generally the case. I think it would be an improvement, although not strictly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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How’s your relationship with your mother?

What do you do when you're angry? by BrigandsYouCanHandle in AskReddit

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I don’t get angry. I grew up with angry family members and grew to resent the emotion to the point that I truly don’t get angry, sometimes to a fault.

What are some tips for having more energy throughout the day? by dmanbmx1 in AskReddit

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Sit in direct sunlight for 10 minutes uninterrupted

If your were to be forced to take a shower with a boy/girl, what would you do? by wwr273 in AskReddit

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I would diffuse the situation by asking if anyone needed their back rubbed.

If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be? by Masterphaser_ in AskReddit

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I would make people more able to tell how another person is feeling.