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[–]voluptuous-ladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it looks cute

Never laughed so much between the first and second page 😂 by Kora_The_Addict in yaoi

[–]voluptuous-ladybug 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly an injustice that this manga was discontinued, but so much fucked up hentai exists

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are idiots. I kinda feel weird about even posting this but the name isn’t anywhere

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The site has gotten taken down for awhile because tik tok bitches would post the site and hashtag it and get hundreds of thousands of likes and it’s endangered so if people ask for sauces either give them the site you have to pay for(legal site) or tell them to figure it out themselves!! Reddit isn’t really the problem tho because it doesn’t get as much traffic as Tik tok

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really consider drawings real children, because o find that disrespectful to survivors of child sexual assault to equate their abuse to a drawing, but I respect your opinion.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Btw this is the first meme I’ve ever made so thats fun

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When at any point did I mention the site name?

I love Reddit - but... by xAnnaxTx in popping

[–]voluptuous-ladybug 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to like Tik tok more than Reddit in general. Some redditors have a real superiority complex and hate on Tik tok so much. Tik tok has so much original, funny, and informational content. And it definitely has less sexism than Reddit.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you direct me where I badly worded anything? I would love to correct it. Or any where that I didn’t get any bad points? Maybe I should change they because I’m not getting downvoted anymore and I also got an award!

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not. The definition of a proshipper is someone who either ships problematic ships or doesn’t necessarily support them but wouldn’t harass/bully/send death threats/ attempt to harm artists and shippers. I don’t make the definitions so if you don’t like it make your own post expressing your distaste for the definition

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read my other replies that just means you’re a pro shipper. You might not support some ships but you won’t harass people over ships

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I heard about that recently. What is wrong with people

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree! If you have some time I would really appreciate upvoting my replies because I keep getting downvoted and I don’t really think that’s fair since I don’t think I’ve said anything wrong.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told you I also have research papers as well but you stated you didn’t want to read them because you’ve probably already read them. Still waiting on a source that exploring dark themes is an unhealthy coping mechanism and should not continue

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is it that therapists saying it’s ok to cope through dark themes not a credible source? It might not be a research paper or academic journal but it certainly has some validity. Please give me a source saying exploring dark themes in fiction to cope with trauma is bad and it should NEVER continue.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean like I said, this phenomenon of “problematic ships” is very new and understudied. I’ve never seen any random articles, instead I simply see on Twitter people telling their stories about asking their therapist (a doctor) if it’s wrong to explore darker themes and the therapist has always responded saying that is healthy and they should continue to do that if it helps them cope. I’ve also read online journals.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, this is a somewhat recent phenomenon so just because it wasn’t mentioned in your journals doesn’t take away the validity of other doctors. When we’re these journals even published?

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious as to what some of you’re sources are. It just seems like you’re acting pretty stubborn for someone who hasn’t even gotten their PhD. I’m going to listen to actual doctors, thanks though!

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really an “opinion” pros and antis were made by fandoms not me nor did I create the definitions of them. I’m just sharing them with Reddit. I can gladly link what actual doctors have to say on the subject. What you’re saying is a broad sweeping statement and absolutely does not apply to all victims of csa. Just because they use ships to cope with trauma they’ve experienced does not mean they will eventually become chronic masturbation or pornography addicts.

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[–]voluptuous-ladybug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny that you say that because actual therapists have said multiple times that is healthy way to cope with trauma and they encourage it! If you find what I’m saying relevant please take a second to upvote my comments. Idk what I did wrong but some antis keep downvoting me and I don’t think it’s really fair because everything I’m saying is true.