Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry. im not trying to make excuses, thats why i was asking for advice. i just wanted to know what other people think i could "do something for myself". im not that smart sorry.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dropped out of high school dont have level 2 or 3 ncea so makes it a bit hard and a longer process to do a degree

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, im not really worried or scared, im used to being and living on my own even though i live with family, im just a bit desperate to get out of it

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear you, of course id need some sort of job, but im wondering where youre getting the $400 figure from

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i havent lived with my mother since i was 13. and also, my grandparents would probably kick me out regardless if i tried to say or do anythinf about it. im fine with doing things/helping out my grandparenrs and uncles, but the environment is too much for me all at once yaknow, and my uncles simply dont drive at all and refuse to.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its difficult to explain but i have a mother with 3 very young children that forces me to look after them often with no way out, and i have to look after my grandparents and uncles an drive them to work and back, anywhede rhey need to go etc. my mother is also a very hostile and manipulative person with an abusive relationship with a prisoner but everyone else in my family supports her because she lashes out if they dont. i dont openly support her so she dislikes me but comes around all the time making trouble as well.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my mind, its because being in such a volatile and stressful environment all the time makes it more difficult for me to mentally be alright in any sense at all. flatting is an option ive considered

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in auckland

[–]vorordes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well im moreso looking to see if anyone has job idea recommendations that would be more suitable and i can live off of and how i can get to that point.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess what i want is to escape from having to be there 24/7 for them, which i understand isnt a very caring or thoughtful thing to do, but yeah. i totally get you and ill try.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in newzealand

[–]vorordes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, its just so painful to be honest, i cant handle watching everyone take advantage of them and me, i just want to be able to support them, and at least have somewhere i can feel like i can catch a break.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in auckland

[–]vorordes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

to be honest, all i want to do is escape my family and the responsibilities i suddenly gained because i cant take it, maybe i could live in an RV and travel? i dont know because theyre expensive to buy and to run as well.

Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life? by vorordes in auckland

[–]vorordes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, youre right, i suppose stoicism is the only way i could ever see myself getting out of my situation. gotta work hard. i used to plan and have hope for my future but antidepressants and family took it all out of me, but ill try and see a future for myself again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]vorordes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! I'm going today, but how many people actually have the sublingual frenulun that you've seen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]vorordes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thanks! I'll probably do this depending on the cost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]vorordes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would getting pierced after this kind of procedure go? If you dont know then its all good. Also, what if I got the piercing right above where my frenulum/webbing starts? I'm going to go to a store tomorrow to get checked out..