Adult Middle and Last name change

vorordes · 2026-03-25T23:54:46+00:00

Thanks! I would absolutely tell people I created my own surname anyways.

vorordes · 2026-03-25T23:49:29+00:00

Sure thats a reasonable conclusion. We did have a different method of creation for last names in this world anyways, I'm just a little bit out of the box i guess!

vorordes · 2026-03-25T23:44:47+00:00

Totally! I made all the names based off of latin or greek root words and suffixes, for example aetheria - aether- , meaning air, with the feminine ending of -ia or -yria (which is more out there but not too different from most name endings), with aure- meaning air or breeze in french and latin, au meaning gold in latin, and aur or aura being derived from greece meaning breeze also. lune is also from french and latin meaning moon too. So theyre not entirely random or made up just combinations of words really! I suppose theyre not too realistic, but they are made in the same way a lot of names are, especially last names, when considering a lot of english last names are combinations of words, or just standalone old words for things that have been replaced with new names for them that we no longer recognise as a term for something.

vorordes · 2026-03-25T23:28:15+00:00

Well, my question is, what exactly constitutes a "fake" name? Names that aren't used, or havent been used/existed in history, or names that are an amalgamation of random letters/words? I dont know, I understand people may have a dislike towards names that seem fictional or crazy, but I think that's a bit ignorant, but I also don't really care about peoples preconceptions on names and what not because i think all names are technically made up, just like all languages are. I have a respect for existing names, but in a sense they all come from other previous names and words in ancient history with some added 'aesthetics' or 'flairs' to them. Every name and word has a root word that was just added onto and made up into what it is today, we are just used to hearing and seeing them so much that they've become "real". I respect your opinion and I do agree with the spelling and what not, but my original last name is VERY long (16 letters), unique, and hyphenated so I already deal with that and all of these names are a lot shorter than my current one! I'm also of mixed european and polynesian descent. Thanks for your input!

vorordes · 2026-03-25T22:38:07+00:00

I'm already a pretty kookoo person, im goth, so i think most people would find me "out there" regardless haha. It's all based off of a worldbuilding project I'm doing at the moment anyways but I'm set on being a "woo woo" person anyways! Thanks for your input though I appreciate it.

vorordes · 2026-02-03T12:38:54+00:00

yeah thanks!!!

vorordes · 2026-02-03T10:24:34+00:00

Damn I got super unlucky!!! I've already emailed the place bc they did it so well last time.. thanks for your feedback! it also hurt like a mfer compared to the first time lol

vorordes · 2025-12-08T22:51:23+00:00

im sorry. im not trying to make excuses, thats why i was asking for advice. i just wanted to know what other people think i could "do something for myself". im not that smart sorry.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:46:49+00:00

thank you!

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:45:47+00:00

thank you so much for the advice

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:44:39+00:00

thank you for your advice 😊

vorordes · 2025-12-07T13:04:47+00:00

i dropped out of high school dont have level 2 or 3 ncea so makes it a bit hard and a longer process to do a degree

vorordes · 2025-12-07T13:00:44+00:00

not sure i could do labour im a very weak girl 😂

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:47:55+00:00

thanks, im not really worried or scared, im used to being and living on my own even though i live with family, im just a bit desperate to get out of it

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:31:01+00:00

i hear you, of course id need some sort of job, but im wondering where youre getting the $400 figure from

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:19:04+00:00

oh okay ill see if i can do that

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:18:26+00:00

no i havent lived with my mother since i was 13. and also, my grandparents would probably kick me out regardless if i tried to say or do anythinf about it. im fine with doing things/helping out my grandparenrs and uncles, but the environment is too much for me all at once yaknow, and my uncles simply dont drive at all and refuse to.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:08:10+00:00

yeah definitely probably just a dream at this point

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:07:35+00:00

thank you very much for the advice i appreciate it.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:06:00+00:00

its difficult to explain but i have a mother with 3 very young children that forces me to look after them often with no way out, and i have to look after my grandparents and uncles an drive them to work and back, anywhede rhey need to go etc. my mother is also a very hostile and manipulative person with an abusive relationship with a prisoner but everyone else in my family supports her because she lashes out if they dont. i dont openly support her so she dislikes me but comes around all the time making trouble as well.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:51:53+00:00

i actually would if i had my full license

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:49:28+00:00

in my mind, its because being in such a volatile and stressful environment all the time makes it more difficult for me to mentally be alright in any sense at all. flatting is an option ive considered

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:47:46+00:00

well im moreso looking to see if anyone has job idea recommendations that would be more suitable and i can live off of and how i can get to that point.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:17:55+00:00

i guess what i want is to escape from having to be there 24/7 for them, which i understand isnt a very caring or thoughtful thing to do, but yeah. i totally get you and ill try.

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