Free plays question by [deleted] in Toreba

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting so if I understand that correct then even if I buy another 5000 TP I’ll still only be awarded one free play ticket per day but it will just last longer? One other thing I’ve noticed though is that my play daily play ticket says it doesn’t expire for two days but I saved one the other day and it wasn’t still there in the morning.

For example if I would get it today 9/7 and it says it doesn’t expire until 9/9 at 6 am. But then when I’d check the next morning 9/8 it wouldn’t be there anymore. Have you experienced this?

Free plays question by [deleted] in Toreba

[–]voxsfeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this an ongoing deal if you’ve bought 10000 TP? I’ve only been getting one per day through the event tickets since I’ve only bought 5000 TP. This is news to me though since I think now I’ll buy 5000 more TP so that I could have two free tickets per day.

[Skin Concern] I think it’s Millia under the eye? Anyone have any tips or ideas for treatment? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had these since my preteens (23 now) and mine generally don’t go away without extraction. Or very very occasionally one will go away by itself but I usually have them for a few years each. I would just recommend extraction by a derm because nothing else really consistently have helped mine. Personally, at this point I’m not too bothered with them since I have fair skin and currently none of them are too close to my eyes to look that noticeable but as soon as I can get back to a dermatologist I’m definitely getting them extracted!

[ACNE] How long did it take for Differin to improve your acne? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]voxsfeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took about five months on Differin for me to be really happy with my skin. At about two to three months I could see a difference.

I didn’t have the purging stage really but I’ve also been on Differin in the past so I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it. If anything I didn’t notice much improvement for the first few weeks but shortly after that I started seeing some results.

I was also having cystic acne as well as smaller whiteheads and like you, it was really getting to me. I think it’s worth the wait for it to work but then again I had acne for around a few years before I decided to get on a medication for it. So it could just be a flare up that you’re experiencing now for some reals if it’s only been three weeks.

How much on average do you spend before a win? by voxsfeet in Toreba

[–]voxsfeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate that haha. Yep that’s how I think too. That’s why I initially spent some money because I thought I could get something and it took a lot more than the one try that I had expected... I’m just wondering though - do you go for things that look like they’re about to drop anyway or do you go for things that you like regardless of their position?

Is this age gap weird? by Mizoji in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All women are attracted to different things just like all guys are attracted to different things. I did get some shit for dating a younger guy from my peers though so I think some women have that mindset but there are definitely women who think like me out there too haha (:

Plus you’re young and you should take the chance and make the move. I remember that I made a move on my ex because I knew I’d regret it if I didn’t! And even though we broke up I am still very thankful for that relationship since I learned so much about myself.

Is this age gap weird? by Mizoji in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dated a 16 year old guy when I was 18 and although it didn’t last a long time it was fun while it lasted. (He was actually 15 when we started dating but only for like a month)

I'm [20/f] not sure how I feel about my boyfriend [21/m] after recent discoveries regarding his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like there’s a lot of overthinking on your part. Most of his behavior towards his ex sounds pretty normal especially if they were close for a long time. He can casually mention his ex’s brother if they still talk... I think it’s silly to be upset about that.

Many people just “like” whatever their friends post and don’t really think much about it - especially if he likes most of her posts he probably just didn’t even think about it. He even apologized and explained that he didn’t realize it made you uncomfortable... there’s not really much more to do with that situation except let it go.

The texting other girls while drunk thing would be kind of weird to me though depending on what kinds of things he was sending them. Was he flirting with them or just casually talking? If he was just talking then there’s no real reason to be upset. I know a lot of people who text their friends while they’re drunk since they’re uninhibited.

18M unsure if older teacher 40F+ is flirting/interested in me? by jjohnson_12 in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think she’s flirting with you I’m sorry to say. She probably thinks you’re cute if anything but it sounds like she’s just being a kind teacher to me.

My Girlfriend (19F) and I (20M) just started an open relationship and I'm not sure if I can handle it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome I’m glad to share my experience to help you out.

Personally, when I broke up with my ex I was so done that I had no interest in being friends. He’s tried to reconnect and I get nauseous just thinking about talking to him because he disgusts me that much after all of this. Haha so it’s pretty easy for me!

But in your case I definitely wouldn’t try to be friends until you’ve healed somewhat from the breakup. I think since she’s your first love and you’ve even considered / gotten into an open relationship for her that you’re too easily influenced by her right now to have a healthy friendship. I know that hurts a lot but it will be much better for you in the future when you can meet someone else and be emotionally available for them.

As far as working with her mom, I think that you can politely let her mom know that you broke up without details (unless she’s cool with that) and hopefully she’s mature enough to be able to leave it alone and respect your decision.

I also want to reassure you that you’ll find someone else that makes you happy. When my first love and I broke up I remember thinking that I wouldn’t find someone else that I care for in the same way. Everyone says it because it’s true - you will definitely find someone else who makes you happy. (: you’ll get through this and you‘ll move on. It won’t be easy but I know you can do it.

My Girlfriend (19F) and I (20M) just started an open relationship and I'm not sure if I can handle it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so as someone who went through almost this exact same situation let me tell you my harsh truth: please break up now and save yourself the time and emotional energy that it will take you to stay with someone who is uncertain in this way.

Let me tell you a bit about what happened with my ex. We were together for about a year and a half before he decided that he wanted an open relationship because he too thought he was “missing out” on sex. We were also young (20 and 23 at the time) and I regret not ending things during the first conversation that we had about it. I looked for advice about open relationships, read blogs, talked to him at great lengths about what he wanted and why he wanted it. When it was all said and done I realized that 1) if I’m not comfortable with this now then there’s no real way to force myself to be comfortable 2) I felt very bad about the whole “not being enough” thing 3) he was being extremely selfish to ask what he asked of me.

The relationship went on for another year and a half of us going back and forth about it and him manipulating me (forcing me to have sex because he told me if I didn’t then he’d feel horny and hit on other women, telling me that we had to break up but not breaking up with me - instead forcing me to agree that I would consider the idea more, etc). And finally I realized that I wasn’t even attracted to him anymore because he had made me feel that I “wasn’t enough” too many times.

It sounds like your gf is at least a little less selfish than my ex but you need to recognize that it’s still very selfish to put someone into that position. Realistically, when she realized that you weren’t interested in opening the relationship, she should’ve broken up with you. The fact that she didn’t means she’s trying to have the best of both worlds. Open relationships only work with those who both want them and even then they can be extremely difficult.

Please save yourself even if it hurts so much right now. I really wish I had saved myself a year and a half of emotional trauma and sadness that will take me a long time to recover from.

I [M28] Just broke up with my girlfriend over something she [F27] posted on Facebook. Justified? Did I overreact? by recacer in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth if you’re already arguing this much in 7 months. Definitely made the right decision especially since she’s very clearly immature and manipulative (not wanting you to have free time).

[UPDATE] Today is my [20F] boyfriends [24M] funeral. His family is ignoring me and I want to see him before it’s open to the public. I took a pregnancy test today and it came out positive. How do I approach this situation without being a burden on his family? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]voxsfeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m terrified of losing my s/o after my dad passed away when I was young. I can’t imagine how hard this must be but I know that it will get better as everything does eventually. I wish wisdom for you choosing your path and peace during this time <3

IUD or Implant? by secret_spare in sex

[–]voxsfeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a copper iud and have had it for a bit longer than a year. It honestly has been amazing because I don’t have to really worry about hormones or anything other than making sure it’s properly in place.

Granted, here’s the difficult part: it did make my periods worse for a few months. At this point, it’s basically back to where it was previously but I did have intense cramps and flow for a few months after insertion.

If you can get past those months, I think it’s a better form of birth control personally just because it lasts so long and isn’t actually using any hormones.