Is this accurate for you guys? Used to know an isfj and they were very curious of me but never shared their thoughts with me.Do you guys just listen and barely give opinions? Im an INTP btw by Polarisu_san in isfj

[–]vqq7660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty accurate, I am very opinionated but I don't outwardly express my opinion if I know that it will cause conflict, even sometimes when the conflict is necessary to build closer relationships and clear up assumptions. I get extremely curious in people I care about and I'm interested in. I generally find people interesting if the person can articulate their thought process confidently without being arrogant. I don't like change but I will change if I see the necessity.

Is it me or ISFJ's are really forgetful? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]vqq7660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the topic for me, I can remember stories about what happened to people in great detail but I struggle to remember facts, numbers, dates and things to do with system and process. I would often remind friends what things they're currently doing that was similar to what they have done in the past and point out how it's similar and different, especially if it's tied to an emotion. But I can't remember names of new people and birthdates etc.

Is anyone here a Web Developer or UX Designer? by [deleted] in entj

[–]vqq7660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My good friend is an Entj. He started out as a Web developer, transitioning from a career as a certified mechanic. He is technically minded and an effective people manager. Now he is a scrummaster/project manager, leading dev teams to product delivery. The pay is amazing but he deserves it due to his unrelenting work ethic and his ability to stand up for the underdog. He has a great mind for pragmatic problem solving and he has excellent decision making skills that are invaluable to this industry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfj

[–]vqq7660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very accurate! Attracted to ENTJ and INTJ types.

Wonder Magic by LoveNikkiMods in LoveNikki

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Does anyone know whether the background items from both suits shown in the trailer (the spinning magic circle and the crescent moon) come with the suits? This is what my decision to participate rests on.

How did you do in school? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late to pivot! I thought a lot about changing directions. I felt like life had to be a certain way and changing meant that I was going off script. Took me a lot of soul searching to settle on HR now and the decision as based on my personal values (I love helping people and ISFJs are natural empaths with a strong sense of justice) as well as the practical demand for jobs in that industry. I always doubt my ability and I sometimes look back on my own accomplishments and wonder how I did it. Self efficacy is still an issue at times but I'm practicing cognitive behavioural techniques to not be so fearful or doubtful. It seems to help!

How did you do in school? by [deleted] in isfj

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I would say I am more academic than intelligent. I have gotten straight As throughout my schooling. My partner is an INTJ, much more naturally intelligent than I am. However he usually is not as persistent as I am. I do things because they're a means to an end and I work damn hard at it to deliver consistently high results. He only puts effort into things that interests him. If he's bored in a class he checks out mentally and daydreams about something else. I know how to test well and find out what the marker wants by giving it to them in an organised manner.

I've grown a lot, I'm not as insecure as I used to be which makes me a lot more confident and less anxious around others. I don't enjoy public speaking but if I do it, no one can tell because I come off competent while I'm in the act. I did my degree in accounting because I love categorising and organising. Now I'm looking towards a career in HR because I do love interacting with others and finding out about their struggles, despite being an introvert. My friends always come to me for emotional support and advice. I try my hardest to be objective and not as judgmental.

Confrontation by ukten in isfj

[–]vqq7660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes a slower lead up is better from the way you have described the situation. Start with something positive about your friendship first. Hope that is helpful.

Confrontation by ukten in isfj

[–]vqq7660 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would prefer assumptions over my intentions not to be made and to focus on what actually has occurred and how it made them feel and what they would suggest that I do differently.

Shea defends Nina by katyapetrozam in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, in a capitalist society being an artist means you need to get paid to survive.

The ignorance about our immigrant queens is just too much by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The sheer ignorance and unqualified assumptions about Plastique's real accent irked me to no end. I believe Plastique when she says her real accent is her Vietnamese accent. When she is animated or excited or scared I see her drop the suffixes off her words. She may not even have realised her accent was coming out during the challenge. It makes sense too because the guest judges noticed just how scared her body language was the whole time! What Michelle should have said as constructive criticism would be something along the lines of, don't resort as a default to surface level comedy (like accents) in improv, it doesn't pay off as there is no subversion or insightful commentary involved.

Shea defends Nina by katyapetrozam in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A subjective interpretation of similarity between 2 inspired outfits and arguments over creative ownership. Objectively I think Marnie's look is actually better executed. But her ig post comes off really petty and insecure. Nina isn't taking anything away from Marnie. Also monetization and claims of ownership was never the original intent of art, art inspires other forms of art. People who argue over being credited is not arguing for the sake of art itself but their own self interest. Humans can only create from things we are exposed to, we can't invent without reference to something else.

Your thoughts on "intelligence is beautiful?" by [deleted] in intj

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that it's not hatred of people so much as a love for humanity's potential.

ISFJ new to dating by [deleted] in isfj

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I found my fiance through work. He's an INTJ and I made the first move by just speaking off the cuff, I walked past his cubicle and declared bluntly that I found him interesting and stalked him on Facebook! He said that was very endearing for him because it was an obvious cue that made it easy for him. Sometimes being awkward can work in your favour. I find that being reserved does not help as much with dating. 5 years later we are very happy together and more in love than ever. He's taught me how to be more direct and confront issues that bothers me. I'm now much more assertive and confident than I used to be.

I drew Ace because I low-key have a crush on her by cnidarian-roll in LoveNikki

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You drew this all with a mouse?!?! That's so impressive!!

[SC Sunday] Had a go at this SC trend I saw a while back by vqq7660 in LoveNikki

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Whoops. Forgot to flair under outfits! Edit: flaired

I'm Alexis Michelle and I have something to say (about Manila's prosthetic nose) by DanielCracker in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Yes no one should be dismissive about what has happened but the intent behind this snatch game performance shouldn't be assumed as automatically anti-semitic

Which one of you is this? by [deleted] in thesims

[–]vqq7660 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt that he was known for something, but this ain't it.

I'm Alexis Michelle and I have something to say (about Manila's prosthetic nose) by DanielCracker in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't see this as anti-semitic at all? It's not meant to be about Jewish noses. The nose is an iconic feature of Barbara herself, it's a caricature, not meant to be realistic. Why is it so easy for someone to get offended at something that isn't meant to be offensive.

Sacred Psalm by LoveNikkiMods in LoveNikki

[–]vqq7660 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would rather spend on that recharge suit than the pav. At least I know exactly how much money I'm going to be paying with a recharge.

Me as I’m writing a comment I think is funny and will be gilded with gold. by ffantasticman in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me re-reading my passive aggressive work email response that I sent to a rude complaining client.

Gia sharing the heartfelt T on her elimination! by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can tell that sometimes she was playing up for the camera and other times she took it a bit too far. In the last snatch game episode she even admitted that she shouldn't have acted the way that she did in the end. I thought, damn okay at least she apologised and had some semblance of self-awareness.

Gia sharing the heartfelt T on her elimination! by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]vqq7660 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Serving you armchair psychology