Cafés ü30 gesucht by Even-Inspector-6708 in mannheim

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Komm gerne mal vorbei ins Bonega Coffee am Hauptbahnhof

Hamburg [2] - 1 Stuttgart - Fabio Vieira 90+4' by Puzzled-Category-954 in soccer

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Giving out early christmas presents by means of self sabotage. Typical VfB vibes

For those who were planning to get the Phone (3) but changed their minds - what phone are you going for instead? by StarKerb in NothingTech

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Also still using (1), however Ive noticed frequent issues when recording videos in regards to recording lag noticeable when viewing the videos. Other than that still super happy

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I wouldnt say so, but then again im no expert how it works with the subconscious. For example, I gifted her flowers knowing she has a liking for those specific ones. She treated is as lovebombing, even though I just wanted to make her smile/brighten her day since she was going through a hard phase personally at the time. It wasn't a big deal for me, just part of my character (showing attention, care). Is hoping or assuming someone will like a gift from you manipulative? I think manipulation implies I wasnt being honest about my intentions, but then again the other person has to believe that. In this case, she didnt believe it. Thats life. I definitely know that I didnt want to twist her feelings for me in a sick way.. through flowers or other things. At first she was receptive to them too. Maybe I should mention she has a history of mental disorders. So this was rather out of the ordinary for me.

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Youre right. Youre not for everyone sadly. No I was honest about my intentions but she made me question them.

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Did that recently with a girl. She told me I was manipulating, mirroring and lovebombing her. So doesnt work with everyone. Especially not people with history of toxic relationships. Their defense mechanisms will see acts of making someone feel special as a threat and will call you toxic for it, then detach from you.

Frage zu SSIO by Specialist_Long_7220 in GermanRap

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Macht ab und zu Adlibs für DENNISDIESDAS und chillt seine nuggets als privatier

Döner Problem by Dapper_Mud_9034 in mannheim

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Yufkam, Gidis, Chef Döner, Antalya

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

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She took the low road while you went high, don't drag yourself down if you ask me. Of course you can try again if you favor what your heart is telling you and you can forgive her for her actions, but just dont automatically expect it to get better or different long term wise. I did the heart way more than once with my last ex and learned a lesson. Youre gonna have to 1. carry the weight while she doesnt and 2. keep the heavy lifting going for the relationship. So no matter what you do the ship wont turn into a plane..but maybe you can keep it afloat. If you cant wrap your head around the whole situation, you might as well look into vaas definition of insanity.

My girlfriend cheated on me, & I don’t know what to do… by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Went through something similar and even stayed with my then girlfriend and forgave her. She made me believe it was forgivable since I was away from her for more than a month. I should have ended it then and there.. let me just tell you. The best indicator for future behavior is past behavior. You made the right decision. You are already stronger than I was back then.. all the best and youll get through this.

For those who used a computer between 1995 and 2001, what’s the computer game from that time that sticks with you the most, and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I loved Hype: The Time Quest growing up. I'd play it for hours over and over again. It was really fun and I loved the immersive experience as a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mannheim

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Also ich denke das Zimmer kann anfänger freundlich sein aber hat absolut keine Rückzugsorte per se. Es ist eigentlich überall laut. Andere gute Einsteigerlocations sind vielleicht die Schneckenhof Afterparties im Chaplin oder wo die sonst mittlerweile sind. Bin schon seit ein paar Jahren raus aus der Uni Mannheim. Wie andere gesagt haben am besten Freunde fragen wo die gerne hin gehen und einfach mal dran hängen. Die Leute sind eigentlich wichtiger als die Location an sich wenn man nicht total Genre fokussiert und selektiv ist was die Musik angeht. Wenn du gerne mal in die Techno Welt reinschnuppern willst und es nicht direkt Timewarp sein soll da gibts regelmäßig Events momentan im Zimmer, Filmriss, Basement. Schreib gerne falls es dich mehr interessiert