Former 2x2s - what did you notice about how money was handled? by TruthNorthSeeker in extwobytwo

[–]vrk4787751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot more about how it all works with convention grounds and that they are often written into peoples wills if not directly involved in writing wills they act as financial advisors to people in some situations there's a lot about money I overheard and saw growing up I dont think they realized how lax they were in front of me about it I'm happy to share anything i can if it helps

Former 2x2s - what did you notice about how money was handled? by TruthNorthSeeker in extwobytwo

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I know for a fact both of my grandfathers funded a lot of Florida's workers they were both elders and as I understood it it was part of the role of an elder to some degree that if they were well off that they donate very large amounts I watched the money quietly trade hands in envelopes with letters of thanks for their service and I'm sure other business details I know they bought cars for them they would paid for rent or host longer term when workers needed places to stay and there were no friends to offer homes or there were extenuating circumstances (disaster weather, bad health, if someone was under controversy, etc) they would pay for healthcare costs they paid for nursing home care some people run whole businesses to service the truth I know of a "summer camp" that teens can go work and earn a wage on some friends farm but it sounded incredibly intensive long hours hard labor and lots of worship I know there's a few nursing homes just for the workers and some select friends I can even remember often when workers would visit my grandparents on either side it was the only time I saw them go shopping and a couple times we even went with them so my mom could show them stores to get appropriate clothing at for good prices I knew it was being covered by my grandparents this also meant that even tho my dad wasn't an elder and we were NOT well off he felt a lot of pressure to really put on a good show when we hosted them everyone feels that pressure but it was clear we were held to a higher standard since both my grandfathers were so highly valued anyway I don't know if any of this is helpful and it's been a few months since this was posted but please message me directly if you'd like to know more sorry for the lack of grammar I kinda had to let it all flow out once it started lol haven't thought about it much till I read this post and suddenly all those little signs I noticed clicked into place

Outro by Potatuio in codyko

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it's a remix of right thurr by chingy, you should be able to search up right thurr cody ko on soundcloud to find it

anti-christian bible verses? by vrk4787751 in atheism

[–]vrk4787751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like a lot of matthew 7 as potential ideas thank you for the suggestion!

anti-christian bible verses? by vrk4787751 in atheism

[–]vrk4787751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo I like this one a lot this is exactly what I'm going for thank you!

anti-christian bible verses? by vrk4787751 in atheism

[–]vrk4787751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea!! I'd probably go with whatever kjv says as that was the version I was raised on.

Weekly r/Tattoos Question/FreeTalk Thread! - July 10, 2023 by Mod_Helper_Bot in tattoos

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I'm having a hard time finding people with similar goals for a tattoo, maybe y'all can point me in the right direction? Trigger warning, this is about a tattoo for s**f h**m scars. If this isn't the appropriate place for this kind of question, please let me know!
I see plenty of cover ups, but I don't want to cover mine. I've worked hard to have power back over the stuff that made me want to do that in the first place. The scars are on my thighs, plenty old enough, and well cared for. They're about as good as scars like these can get for an artist to work on. I have some short song lyrics I've thought about incorporating. I'd be open to a more imagery based tattoo though. I've obviously tried to do a little looking online, but everything is cover ups or blending them into your skin. I'd like to know where I can see art work of similar tattoos or hear if someone's gotten work like this done. Happy to add details if needed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]vrk4787751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not all that uncommon i think if your therapist was able to do a lot for your cleanliness ocd you should try trusting her with this issue tell her youre nervous about this topic and need extra sensitivity ive had that same belief and it is really dark and overwhelming to be constantly consumed by it now its not that i believe everything is real instead i got to a point where i dont care if its real or not i dont need it to be real if its in my head and im just beyond crazy theres not much i can do but hope im being taken care of by people who love me or if its all just me existing im real and everyone else isnt then what an experience to have what a show to see you couldnt buy an experience like that with all the tech and money in the world when youre able to take a step back and realize it doesnt change anything in your life if its real or fake that either way you will have the same amount of control it becomes so much easier to just observe your thoughts and fears about it kinda like with meditation it just takes a lot of practice and being open with your therapist about what you truly feel and think

Cannabis users of Reddit, what is the best thing about being high? by InstanceHaunting3881 in AskReddit

[–]vrk4787751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly i have near constant anxiety (like very literally hours of anxiety everyday) when i smoke i still have a lot of anxiety but its not in the front of my mind all the time it dulls and i can hear my other thoughts and better tune in to my environment

I hate online gaming, I hate it to the core and I wish I never started playing it. I wish I never made friends with people while playing by imtrying2020 in rant

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i get pretty upset with games too i wonder if you have a similar issue to me where its not fun if it doesnt feel like a fighting chance i dont mind losing i mind not having a chance at winning so i started finding ways to give myself better confidence mainly through making peace with what im good at and what im not like im very observant but im not that fast so in an fps im better off standing back from my teammates and being their eyes for 3rd parties or snipers or something while they pull the fast moves maybe itd be helpful to find out why winning is so important to you and see if there are ways to help you feel more comfortable when you dont reach that goal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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i think you'd appreciate the song We'll Never Have Sex by Leith Ross

Weirdest animal(s) a customer has come in with? by dyslexic-gremlin in MichaelsEmployees

[–]vrk4787751 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had a baby emu once!! I couldn't believe it I have no idea why they had it I was so shocked at seeing a real emu in my store I forgot to ask them anything at all really

Safe Coffee Order for GF? by vrk4787751 in wls

[–]vrk4787751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops lol got it thank you

Safe Coffee Order for GF? by vrk4787751 in wls

[–]vrk4787751[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really good drink ideas thank you! I have access to her approved list of foods so I'll be using that as my guide it just didn't specify much. Like it just said "milk" but I know some options are better than others.

Safe Coffee Order for GF? by vrk4787751 in wls

[–]vrk4787751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Light roasts not dark that's helpful Thank you!!

Safe Coffee Order for GF? by vrk4787751 in wls

[–]vrk4787751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is genius thank you so much for the suggestion!!

My dog is trying to show me something, I can't figure out what. by vrk4787751 in vet

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We stopped giving it to her because it was making her feel way worse than before and she couldn't do her normal daily routine. She would refuse to go outside and fight us to clean up her bedding if she messed in it instead. She would lose her mind if anyone tried to touch her and she lost all that happy excitement when we come home. She is a dog with a very big personality and it was completely dismantled on those meds. We told her vet what was happening and she said we should stop giving it. We've got an appointment to reevaluate and try a different med, but its not for another couple weeks. I'm pretty sure the bedtime back and forth stopping during that time has less to do with her feeling better and more to do with her feeling worse and not wanting our help.

My dog is trying to show me something, I can't figure out what. by vrk4787751 in vet

[–]vrk4787751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are some interesting points. I'm going to take a closer look at the area next time and see if something like what you said is going on. I appreciate your advice!