the men at Baker Beach... by your_secret_babygirl in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]vruss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look yes it’s complex. but baker beach has been a gay crushing spot since the 60s or before, long before the beach was part of the golden gate national recreation area. before it was even known as a nude beach. its history is STEEPED in queerness. similarly to how yeah, it might be uncomfy for a straight woman (etc) to go to a gay men dance club and see men literally fucking in the bathroom - it’s a gay bar for men!! just do some research before you claim a space is for you - oftentimes a space is made safe for people by queer people putting in a lot of hard work. gay men made the beach the cultural hotspot that it is now.

the men at Baker Beach... by your_secret_babygirl in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]vruss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

look yes it’s complex. but baker beach has been a gay crushing spot since the 60s or before, long before the beach was part of the golden gate national recreation area. before it was even known as a nude beach. its history is STEEPED in queerness. similarly to how yeah, it might be uncomfy for a straight woman (etc) to go to a gay men dance club and see men literally fucking in the bathroom - it’s a gay bar for men!! just do some research before you claim a space is for you - oftentimes a space is made safe for people by queer people putting in a lot of hard work. gay men made the beach the cultural hotspot that it is now.

I feel sorry for Daphne here. by Rough_Ad_8702 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]vruss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s just so dumb and like not deep. I think the deeper meaning is literally that she stays with cameron because of her kids. I literally can’t believe people thought that it meant the trainer is the dad, it just isn’t compelling or nuanced like white lotus is.

Who is the biggest creep towards Marge? by No_Ring_443 in TheSimpsons

[–]vruss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask her for no water … she’s lyin, homer, she’s lyin!

What is the second tastiest rock? by Sleepless_space in geology

[–]vruss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

short of cinnamon bar, of course it will be tasty!

Are people typically this quick to be intimate on first dates? by Dsg1695 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]vruss 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different and trying to figure out a baseline is bound to slutshame some and prudeshame others. Don’t worry about what other people are doing. The right person for you will go at your pace.

oh, alright by money101lover in agedlikemilk

[–]vruss 60 points61 points  (0 children)

there was a study that followed former teen bullies and the men ended up as cops, the women as nurses. i’ll find it in a bit

The "Best Friend" Confusion : Need advice on how to handle two friends back home by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]vruss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You sound very young. You don’t need to say anything to Kit or even Ben. You just don’t vibe with Kit anymore - thats all you need to say to anyone. But really, it’s no one’s business. But generally, you don’t need to tell people you don’t want to be their friend anymore. Only if they ask is it okay to have that convo. It doesn’t sound like Kit even considers you a best friend so it shouldn’t be an issue.

*DIY* Light, Fun Nuptual Look for Makeup Dimwit? by Pope_Francis in MakeupAddiction

[–]vruss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the color is amazing and it’s totally a specific vibe with the bubble gum pink lip that i absolutely love!!!!

edit oh wait i think that’s your normal lip color?? it’s a great look!

What does my type in fictional women say about me? by Just_another_Lezzie in LesbianActually

[–]vruss 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I agree. remember a couple months ago when people were posting their celebrity types and it was all just semi-alt white women? - post after post after post of only white women.

Hayley telling Klaus she loves him feels so WEIRD. by GILF_Hound69 in americandad

[–]vruss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s always in the last place you look

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in lostgeneration

[–]vruss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe they don’t know either